A few random thoughts this morning …

Some of the guys in Vegas were talking about polyamory, and I forgot to put this in my blog. Anyway … it’s counterintuitive but they were saying how much more attracted they are to their primary partner when they are also having sex with other women. They...

Peacocking for Girls

This happened yet again last night, so I wanted to write about it. The guys write about it a lot (for example, check out Sinn’s notes on fashion in this LR), and I KNOW peacocking works for them. I absolutely love it when guys wear bling and interesting clothes....

Two Magical Weekends in Vegas

I’m back home and relaxing on this three-day weekend after two fun-filled weekends in Vegas. This weekend was spent at David Shade’s Masterful Lover Superconference. While there, I alternated my time between the conference and hanging out with Zan Perrion...

Please Call Me By My True Names

Don’t say that I will depart tomorrow — even today I am still arriving. Look deeply: every second I am arriving to be a bud on a Spring branch, to be a tiny bird, with still-fragile wings, learning to sing in my new nest, to be a caterpillar in the heart...