The Lover

The Lover

I’m not sure whether this post will resonate with anyone, and that’s okay. I’m not writing it for you. I’m writing this for me. Over the past few days, I’ve been sitting with what to do with sex. I’m not sure physical sex fits into...
I feel scared to have sex again …

I feel scared to have sex again …

Grappling with My Little Fear Monster So … I’m going to write this “quickie” little blog article before my ego persuades me not to … I feel scared to have sex again. There, I said it. What coaches are not supposed to say because...
My First Wobbly Steps Out of Celibacy …

My First Wobbly Steps Out of Celibacy …

The Process of Becoming Fearless About Sex I feel breathless scared right now. I’m finally returning to the San Francisco Bay Area after a couple weeks in Tahoe and my lover made another date with me for when I return home. I feel absolutely terrified. And that...
What Is Monogamy?

What Is Monogamy?

What Is Monogamy? Monogamy Is A Sexual Monopoly – That Is Why It Doesn’t Work for Anyone My long-time friend and now lover has rightly pointed out that I need to start defining the terms I am using in these recent articles about monogamy. So here goes...