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Frequently Asked Questions About Why Monogamy Is Wrong Go Here


Ever since my Five Reasons Why Monogamy Is An Absolute Bar to World Peace article went viral, I have been participating in dozens and dozens of conversations on Facebook and the blog posts and Twitter about monogamy. Of course, I feel delighted that so many people are interested in this fascinating topic and I appreciate your participation. Unfortunately, that also means that I am answering the same questions over and over and over again, and that many of the conversations are being “lost” in the social media feeds. I wish I had unlimited time to engage, yet I simply must attend to other priorities in my life as well.

So … from here on out, when people have questions, I will be referring them to this post. In the comments section of this post, you can ask me anything about why monogamy is blocking world peace and why it must be abolished.

Erika Awakening

If you missed our earlier articles about monogamy, check them out here:

What Is Monogamy?

The Quiet Desperation of Monogamy

Five Reasons Why Monogamy Is An Absolute Bar to World Peace

How Monogamy Is Like Racial Segregation

How Specialness Ruined Sex for Everyone

Saving the Planet One “Orgy” At A Time


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  1. Alchemystic Goldmind says:

    Your Mind ..Ideas….Perceptions are Amazingly fresh and Brilliant……an Open Blue Sky with the box left burning to ashes left on the ground!!!

    • Erika Awakening says:

      ah ha, thank you so much for sharing Alchemystic Goldmind :) Would love to hear your thoughts here anytime, we need them! :)

  2. Erika Awakening says:

    Hi thank you everyone for these awesome questions. I am feeling a bit overwhelmed at the moment trying to get everything done and also get my bills paid. I am listening and taking it in and will get back to you when I have the opportunity. In the meantime, on the disease question, the short answer is that defenses do not protect anyone. Real healing is done by healing the subconscious mind. Example here:

  3. Dear Erika,

    You know I’ve been tracking your endeavors for a short period of time now. You are absolutely spot-on regarding the monogamy and other sexual explicit issues you bring to the stage. More than ever it is also clear to me that The A Course In Miracles paradigm is 180deg opposite to what many brothers currently belief is right and therefore true. There is however one thing that would benefit from your vision, in order to fully under-stand the significance of ejaculation. I can’t get to an conclusive answer whether a male human should or should not ejaculate during sex. Same goes for masturbation (master-bait).

    Is it an odd question to ask? Please allow me to elaborate. A man called Samael Aun Weor has devoted lots of his time here on earth on the topic ejaculation from the POV ‘Gnosticism’. In his book ‘Perfect Matrimony’ he explained – in great detail – why a man should NOT ejaculate ‘his’ semen. It all boils down to – don’t get scared – murder. Millions of seeds get murdered in every ejaculation.

    Why would I want to post this to your blog? Well, for starters: it’s on topic for many items you’ve already addressed. Secondly: it could solve many of the questions your readers have concerning their poly-fears. Third: I would really like to hear your opinion on this very important matter. Fourth: a man – that did not ejaculate – has a longer endurance in sex, but has also centered a strong power in his belly-area which makes him more tender and loving to all the people around him. I myself have ‘tested’ it for a long time now, so I know from experience.

    Looking forward to your answer,
    Love and Light,

  4. Robert Frost says:

    Hi Erika
    I went off to university in 1969. A few months after arriving there, the birth control pill became available and the “sexual revolution” began. It was wonderful! There was no herpes or aids to worry about at that time.
    Now sex can kill. How do you prevent spreading STDs with an open loving lifestyle? Do you use condoms and avoid all oral sex?
    This is a practical point that needs to be addresses before non-monogamy can become more popular and safe.

  5. Sense Intelligence says:

    tell me how the erotic party went later!

  6. Sense Intelligence says:

    i did say more than i had to, now i'm taking a pause…

  7. Sense Intelligence says:

    appreciate your attention.

  8. Will Michael says:

    In the end the greater wisdom might be for you to focus on what you love and want to create rather than resisting the collective belief systems that you are against. But, as Alistair Crowley was fond of saying, "Love and do as you will."

    • Hi Will, welcome back to the blog – good to see you again. Characterizing what I am doing as “resistance” is not understanding the holistic transformation system that I’m applying to the situation. Focusing on our “personal interests” without addressing society at large is a dead end. Unfortunately this is as yet little understood in the self-empowerment world …

  9. STDs. How is world peace achieved if I have infected my partners with STDs? I, for one, wouldn’t be at ease with myself if I passed on a deathly illness to anyone, let alone someone I love.

    Sure, I can use a condom, but they are not 100% effective and, let’s be honest, most people don’t use them when engaging in oral sex. Non-monogamy greatly increases the chance of spreading viruses.

    You mentioned something about fear on a previous post. Why, yes, of course I’m afraid of this. We have a saying in my country “El miedo no es zonzo” (Fear ain’t no fool). There’s a reason why I’m afraid about this and I don’t think it’s irrational or unreasonable.

    • Erika Awakening says:

      Hi Esteban, welcome to the blog. Yep good question and one of the biggest FEARS that is driving monogamy (and people say they are not driven by fear …. BULLSHIT). It’s a longer answer though so I will probably add the question to the post itself and answer it when I have a little more time …. short answer is that the answer to disease is exactly the opposite of what our society taught us. You may also enjoy this article:

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