A Little Fairytale Romance :-)

How to Attract Women By Being A Genuinely Good Guy

Last night Matrix Guy took me out for a little night on the town. He picked me up as he usually does, and I assumed we would be making our usual jaunt over to the Marina. But he completely surprised me with a bit of fairytale romance :-)

He had reservations over at this adorable new gypsy-themed restaurant, Gitane. He was all dressed up (I was teasing him cuz he was wearing a PUA-esque shirt even though he’s not a PUA, lol).

The restaurant is in a little alley, and inside it’s this dark romantic space with stone and red leather walls and all kinds of cool gypsy memorabilia. I was feeling in a very light happy mood, so I asked for a glass of champagne. It tasted so refreshing.

Then we had dinner upstairs in a cozy little balcony table overlooking the crowded bar scene. The food was delicious, with lots of exotic spices and mixtures of flavors. The bar and restaurant are a sensual delight, and I recommend them highly! Matrix Guy told me his usual humorous stories (his life tends to be very humorous), and we had a really lovely evening. And he offered to help me with the technology stuff of my blog, which I tend to struggle with.

I was so surprised, and so delighted. I cannot tell you how nice it is, as a woman, to have a man decide ahead of time what we’re doing, take care of all the logistics, pay for everything, and pick me up and drop me off home safely afterwards. Especially when he takes me somewhere I’ve never been so I get to have a fun new experience with him. I feel cherished and delighted and very impressed!

Thank you, Matrix Guy, for the fairytale romance. I hope you have an awesome trip. :-)


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  1. Aldonza says:

    "I normally avoid dinner dates cause that tends to put you in the "provider" group rather than the seducer group."

    The defense for "entitled women" rests.

  2. SMoKeLioN says:

    "I normally avoid dinner dates cause that tends to put you in the "provider" group rather than the seducer group."

    Heh thats funny. I have only one date I do. It is a drinks/dinner date.

  3. Anonymous says:

    Erika, did you sleep with this guy? I normally avoid dinner dates cause that tends to put you in the "provider" group rather than the seducer group.

  4. Anonymous says:

    Yeah, the article at hand! That decor at Gitane is BOSS!!! OMG tell me about the pua shirt – I bet the looked so cute!!

  5. Anonymous says:

    "with preserving the European American white "gene pool…""

    I see what you mean, whats wrong with white people wanting to have more white kids?

    also the site seems to think that absent males in the family would me the woman (mother"s) fault…

    -well what is your opinion on that? do you think that the rise of the single parent family is the fault of the man, the women, both? the system? let's start a discussion related to the article at hand.

  6. Anonymous says:

    Ooooo erika getting some huh?

  7. Anonymous number 1… gave us the link to discussion about prostitutes on a site which seems very concerned with preserving the European American white "gene pool…"

    also the site seems to think that absent males in the family would me the woman (mother"s) fault…

    that is if you get past the part that this is a "euphemistic" white supremacist site

  8. hi Iguana876,

    Thanks for your comment.

    I'm not sure I understand what you mean about his teachings contradicting mine by the example you gave. Will you please elaborate so I can understand better what you mean?

    Also, it's true that my approach has evolved to a different place than Savoy's. There's still a lot of overlap, but my focus is on a deeper form of intimacy than what he teaches and (from my limited experience) practices.

    That in no way affects my appreciation for the role he played in my life getting me to where I am now.

  9. Anonymous says:

    I enjoy reading your blog and you reference savoy many times and praise him…I went to check out his blog, but his teaching so contradict yours ex: http://therealsavoy.blogspot.com/2009/06/magic-bullets-review-sound-familiar.html

    why do you praise him if their mindset contradict yours?


  10. Anonymous says:

    interesting story!

    btw what is your take on this article?


    it's being discussed all over the blogosphere.

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