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How to Attract Women: Non-Verbal Seduction

How to Attract Women: Non-Verbal Seduction

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Hypnotica and Erika Awakening in 2014 at the Worthy Playboy seduction event hosted by Johnny Soporno – Hypnotica is a master of non-verbal seduction

How to attract women with non-verbal seduction is a very popular topic that men ask me about frequently. Most guys want to be “that guy,” the one who can be sexually attractive to women without saying a word. Is non-verbal seduction really possible? Yes, non-verbal seduction is powerful and it happens all the time. Non-verbal seduction also works for women equally well as it does men. Which is what this article about non-verbal seduction demonstrates.

Last night Player Girl (PG for short) and I went out to one of our favorite venues: Americano.

Earlier in the week, on Wednesday night, she and I went out to one of our other favorite venues.

The radical difference in our experiences during the two evenings is really instructive about the power of vibration (which is a person’s “emotional resonance”), for both men and women.

Wednesday Night

On Wednesday night, PG was really upset about something. But she was resisting feeling her feelings. Instead of feeling them, she was running around in circles in her head. She was stuck in a “story.” She was stuck in logic and analysis.

Honestly, it felt awful. I was tuned in to her, so I could feel all our energy up in the head space. It felt like my head was in a vice, with tight bands crushing my skull. The energy felt so, so heavy and painful.

To get some relief, I was trying to get her to ground her energy back in her body. She was relaying a story, and I kept saying, “I don’t care what happened or what he was thinking … how did you FEEL?”

For a moment, she would admit the feeling: sadness, disappointment, jealousy, confusion, outrage.

But then she would start arguing with the feeling. She’d say “but I have no right to feel that way.” Immediately, we were back up in head space, going in circles.

So I said, “don’t argue with your feelings, don’t worry if they are justified or not, don’t worry about what other people may think of your feelings, just FEEL them.”

Finally, I grabbed her hand and started tapping on her karate chop point (Emotional Freedom Technique). Within three minutes, she started crying. She didn’t want to bawl right there in the middle of the venue, so I requested that she do a bunch of tapping and crying once she got home.

Interestingly, we were not approached by any men the entire evening.

She did go home and cry though. She said she pretty much cried non-stop for the next 48 hours.

Friday Night: Non-Verbal Seduction in Action

Last night felt entirely different. PG had released much of the emotional weight by using Emotional Freedom Technique on her sadness. We were solidly grounded in presence, in the world of feeling and intuition. It feels like being underwater almost, with everything moving languidly and in slow motion. It feels relaxed and quiet and sensual.

So when we entered the venue, I said: “Do you feel the space we’re in right now, and how different it is than the space we were in on Wednesday night? This is Presence. This is my home, this is the world of feeling, this is the only space I want to hang out in anymore.”

So what happened?

We sat at our little table sipping wine and eating appetizers, and we were approached by an endless stream of men. Probably 20 at least, including one guy that PG has had a crush on for a long time and who has never shown active interest in her before. Even when we were engrossed in conversation between the two of us, men would approach and stop and stand there.

The only difference between the two evenings was our emotional resonance and vibration, which had shifted dramatically because she was willing to feel and release her feelings from two nights earlier. Because she was willing to do that, everyone could feel our presence and openness.

It wasn’t just men approaching either. Each time we wanted food or drink, a waiter or bartender would magically appear out of nowhere. Men delivered glasses of wine to us even after we had stopped talking to them and without us even requesting it, giving to us without expecting anything in return. It felt like the whole world wanted to be at our service.

The Same Non-Verbal Seduction Principle Works for Men

Another very interesting thing happened. Before PG and I sat at our little table, we went up to the bar to get a glass of wine. While standing there, we were approached by several men, and I noticed a very striking contrast between two of them.

The first one approached and started talking to us. He initiated, and I immediately felt PG’s body language shift away from him. She put up a little wall, and he got nowhere with us.

The second one approached and stood right next to me, on my right. PG was on my left. I felt the firm softness of his presence immediately. Then, much to my surprise because she virtually NEVER opens men, PG energetically reached across me and started a conversation with him. We talked to him for a while, and I noticed that his gaze was super steady, his pupils were super dilated, his presence felt sexual, and he seemed very relaxed. I felt an immediate deep connection. He and I talked again later. He has some connection with the seduction community, which I hope to learn more about soon.

Afterwards, I pointed out to PG the contrast in her reactions to the two men, and she had not noticed consciously. I said, “but do you see how you did notice UNCONSCIOUSLY, even if you weren’t aware of it.” Once I described everything I had noticed, she saw it too. She had not even noticed that she talked to the guy first, before he had even opened us. That is non-verbal seduction in action. It’s really powerful.

This non-verbal seduction is what is happening ALL THE TIME, in all of our interactions with all people. What we do and say is far less important that what our vibration and emotional resonance is doing and saying. Most communication is silent.

Here is an earlier post about Hypnotica and non-verbal seduction.

Oh, by the way, if you like this blog, please share it with your friends so they can learn about non-verbal seduction and lots of other fun topics. Thank you!!

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Comments

  1. Matt says:

    Erika,

    I found your description of flow to be very interesting. I have noticed that underwatery feeling before, especially during moments of sensuous touching but often as well in daily life. There is a surety of purpose that goes along with the feeling, a certain sense of lightness of being and feeling "out of the way" of the stream of energy flowing through me. My former girlfriend and I used to call it "getting underwatery" with each other. It was an interesting synchronicity that I found that description here as well.

  2. Anonymous says:

    BTW, does EFT only focus on the past and negative emotions?

    What if I want to bring myself into the present moment and focus on a positive emotion that I want to be in? How would I do that using EFT?

  3. Anonymous says:

    Thats Hansel…he's so hot right now

  4. Anonymous says:

    Hi Erika,

    After being immersed in my life for a while, enjoying the adventures, I found a moment to facebook and found your article. Good one! This one will help me with my relationships with other women who are "acting weird" when there is a man we are both interested in… I've had some stories going in my head about how other women are and it is one of my heart's desires to share loving, grounded, family relationships with women who love the same man with the same kind of peace and friendliness I have with sisters who don't share the same man.

    I'll give EFT a go and see how it works on a current crimp in the fabric of contement and blissful happiness! I'll try to get back with you about any noticable shifts.

    Thanks for continuing to flood the world with healing, love and your bright light!
    ~Gayla

  5. Anonymous says:

    Do you have any techniques or exercises you use to get into that state?

  6. Erika says:

    Thank you, Teevee.

    It can be difficult, sometimes. The easiest way I've found is to feel whatever I'm feeling and enter Presence from there.

    EFT helps tremendously, too.

  7. teevee says:

    As already mentioned in Facebook:
    Great article. I believe in the same principle.

    But despite knowing that, it is very difficult to focus and re-center.

    Thank you,
    teevee

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