Right now I’m working with several clients, male and female, on erasing “neediness” out of their life. All three of the people I’m currently working with on this issue were frustrated about having a pattern of becoming overly dependent on someone they are dating, and ultimately pushing the other person away.
I can relate, because this is a pattern that I used to have. I used Holistic Belief Reprogramming (HBR) to eliminate the pattern in myself, and now I know how to help you erase it too. Truly, I can tell you from personal experience, that life without that nagging neediness is AWESOME because I feel way more powerful in my relationships now :)
My clients agree. On that note, I wanted to share my most recent testimonial, again an email I received spontaneously from a client who received no compensation for writing it (she did give me permission to share her words here) … she had been struggling with nagging “neediness” … and this was her result after ONE 90-minute session:
i did a session with you last sunday.
i have to tell you that i feel wonderful, lighter, like some heaviness i’ve been carrying around is gone. i feel very happy! i notice my internal dialog a lot more easily now. i have had a couple moments of clinginess and insecurity but have noticed that they are less intense. and the underlying feeling of being ‘less than’ has almost totally disappeared. i hope it stays that way! i have done a lot of therapy over the past couple of years (EFT, emoto-somatic release, talk therapies of various kinds, CBT) but one session with you has had a profound healing effect that none of the others modalities achieved. i would love to continue working with you . . .
thanks so very much,
The simple truth is that people who are able to eliminate “neediness” and “clinginess” from their vibe are going to have much more satisfying relationships, and much greater choice when it comes to relationship partners.
Although I’d like to be able to give you some simple advice that would erase neediness out of your life, the truth is that this is one of the most STUBBORN patterns people have, and even when they attempt to engage in “non-needy” behavior, they still have a “needy” vibe (which the other person picks up on subliminally). Truly, the only method that I’ve seen work consistently to eliminate neediness is my system, Holistic Belief Reprogramming. The reason for that is that “neediness” is really just fear created by a bunch of unpleasant experiences from your past, and HBR is the only method I’ve seen that can systematically erase the negative “conditioning” that people picked up from those negative experiences.
Imagine … life without neediness. The ability to be calm, cool, and collected in any relationship situation. The ability to walk away if your needs are not being met, and the ability to communicate in a way that ensures your needs WILL get met … this is what HBR will give you, especially if you make the commitment to take my 15-week Miracle coaching course.
Over the course of the next few weeks, I’m going to be talking a lot on this blog and in my newsletters about the power of commitment. If you are tired of letting “neediness” run your life and sabotage your relationships, now is the time to get this problem HANDLED. It’s so easy for the undisciplined mind to put this off for the “future,” or make excuses, or say “someday.” But why delay your happiness and success?!? I’m asking you to make a commitment to get neediness handled NOW, so that you can feel happy and powerful NOW.
Commitment statements are very powerful, so I invite you to write out your commitment statement now and share it with a friend. Send a text message to a trusted friend that says:
“I commit to ending neediness in my life starting right now. I commit to being fully powerful in my relationships starting right now. I take full responsibility for everything that is happening in my life, starting right now.”
Even just putting those words in writing and sharing them with a friend (or posting as a Facebook status, or posting your commitment statement in the comments section of this blog post) … is a POWERFUL thing to do. Commitment statements get your subconscious mind working on the problem for you, and attract in creative solutions that you may not have even thought of before.
Please let me know your commitments and your results by posting in the comments section of this blog.
p.s. If you’re truly committed to erasing neediness, I will help you do this FAST. My clients are getting significant results after ONE session, and dramatic results after several sessions. Simply sign up for one of my coaching packages at http://SpiritualSeduction.com/coaching.
About the Author:
Erika Awakening is a Harvard Law School graduate and former practicing attorney. She left the rat race to become a location-independent entrepreneur, holistic life coach, blogger, speaker, healer, and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT tapping) expert. Erika Awakening is one of the world's foremost experts on eradicating limiting beliefs and lifestyle design on your own terms. Learn more about Erika Awakening
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