Twilight: May the Best Man Win …

This evening I am curled up on my sofa drinking a glass of Sauvignon Blanc and writing a little blog entry before Matrix Guy arrives to my apartment. I am feeling very frisky because I just finished watching Twilight for the first time. And now Matrix Guy is going to come over and we’re going to watch either Nights in Rodanthe or Vicky Christina Barcelona.

Now remember … I set an intention to amp my sexual desire as high as it can possibly go … without consummating it.

GS has valiantly decided to help me in this endeavor, by sending me text messages like this one:

“Huge thunderstorm. Power is out. Completely dark. Senses awaken. Silent except for the rhythmic pounding of the rain & thunder. I think of you… just great :-p”

And as if that wasn’t enough, then he said this:

“Got me thinking naughty again… about the kind of juicy experiences you will remember forever. To open you, to claim you, to bring you delirious orgasms.”

Lol :-)

Speaking of GS …

so just what is it about Edward the Vampire that has the entire community talking about how sexy he is? Rori wrote about him. Eight wrote about him. I sat here on the couch feeling my heart race watching the movie, slowly lighting up into full-on arousal.

I posted on Facebook that I was watching the movie, and immediately two different women responded.

The first one said: “OHHH… Believe me… HE IS… You wont forget the way he looks at her for days afterward.. wishing you had your own vampire to look at you like that. !!!!!!!! arrrrr…”

The second one said: “yup, every woman wants a man to WANT her like that.”

So it’s pretty much unanimous. Edward the Vampire is the hottest man since Pierce Brosnan in The Thomas Crown Affair.

Now, I’m not going to get into all the dynamics of push-pull section. Eight already did a fine, fine job of that in his article.

Edward gets things warmed up with push-pull, push-pull. That’s how she knows his strength. Only a man whose core is rock solid can execute authentic push-pull. A weaker man will lose his frame and collapse. So that’s how he first pulls her in to him and gets her interest.

But how is it that he wins her heart so fully and completely that she could never be stolen away by another guy?

He claims her.

He makes it obvious that she is The One. He doesn’t have eyes for any other woman. He’s willing to do anything for her. He protects her. He gives to her. He invites her into his home and his life. He desires her fully and completely.

As Eight says, after a certain point, it’s almost all pull. Pull Pull Pull Pull Pull.

Why is that so important?

Trust. A woman can only give her heart completely and make herself fully vulnerable to a man she can rely on completely.

This is why she will test and test and test. She will put her toe out and see if it lands on solid ground. If it does not, she will pull back.

This is why a man must KNOW what he wants, must not pussy-foot around, and must have inner strength beyond the wildest imagination of most men in order to win the woman of his dreams.

A feminine woman doesn’t chase men. She waits until a man shows up who has that strength and that singleness of desire for her. It cannot be faked. Every other man will fall by the wayside.

You heard it here first.

May the best man win. :-)

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  1. Michael says:

    Too funny!

  2. I wouldn't count on that, Anonymous 11:58 pm. No man is going to have me until he shows up on my doorstep with a ring and a permanent commitment.

  3. Anonymous says:

    just watch, this one is going to go the same as the last two.

  4. Michael says:

    It’s cool, no problem. I probably should have had less coffee.

  5. Michael,

    I must admit that I am also confused and don't understand what you mean …

  6. Michael says:

    Trance is inevitable.

    That being said … um, no. Erika already knows at least two people who specifically teach women how to control and expand their own levels of pleasure and arousal by themselves. My question is … does she prefer to control and increase that on her own, or increase that through playing with others … or both? If both, can she see the creative implications it has?

  7. Urban Underground says:

    Michael, that makes no sense. Are you hypnotizing me?

  8. Michael says:

    Or rather, notice the creative … implications … of each. What if you could flip the switch whenever you wanted? What if it wasn't a switch, but was a dial? What if you could set the dial where you wanted, when you wanted, and then go text and play? And then feel it build even more because of going to text and play?

  9. Anonymous says:

    It is interesting that all the other suitors get to see GoneSavage's "wooing"(like all the text messages that you post), yet he does not get to see theirs. Maybe he does not care? Like it does not bother him or something? What do you think?

  10. Erika, I think I might be as many as three of those Dans. Dan, the Real Dan (thanks to the kind acquiesence of the unreal Dan), and the tall poppy Dan.

  11. Great post! It's amazing how hollywood screenplays of teenage vampire movies based off books written by an introvert and can provide such a useful model for picking up girls in real life.


  12. " … so I don't see much of a distinction … "

    Oh yes, I know, silly. Let's talk more practical. I’m asking you to notice the distinction. You can explore your sexperiment by expanding other people who text you and how, and how that makes it more intense. Notice that you can also explore or discover other processes that are already exclusive to your own – and

  13. Oh there’s nothing wrong with the word per se. It's just that in my world, the word is unfortunately used as such: “First claim: Dear Vendor, after reviewing our records, it has come to our attention that we have not received the item(s) listed below: Erika v.1 no.3 (2009). Please respond to this claim by sending the listed item(s) or by replying in the space below. Thank you for your

  14. Michael,

    What word or concept would you use then, other than "claim"?

    As for your second question, I view the inner and outer worlds as mirrors of each other, so I don't see much of a distinction … I work on the inner, and the outer changes.

    "There is nothing outside of you." – ACIM

  15. Michael says:

    Are you more interested in ways that link that arousal to others, or in ways that link that arousal to what was already present within you, before now?

  16. Michael says:

    I feel so tired of the word “claim.”

  17. Thanks Daniel :-)

    I think I'm going to re-name this "The Daniel Blog."

    We have Dan, Daniel, Dan Brodribb, real Dan, unreal Dan. And we have Dan the Tall Poppy. So it seems only fitting.

  18. Daniel F says:

    Good read.

  19. And since I'm feeling particularly obnoxious tonight, let me just add that if you are "full of shit," you will be quickly weeded out.

    A man like Edward is authentic through and through.

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