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What enticed me to have sex after two years of celibacy

So as some of you already know, I had a pretty amazing week at Johnny Soporno’s Worthy Playboy Lifestyle Workshop in Vegas last week …

In fact, I ended up having sex for the first time in two years …

And for those of you who really wish you had a better love and sex life, I wanted to share what paved the way for this miraculous week, and what motivated me to have sex with this man.

1. Inner game preparation. First, no question about it, if you really want to have these kinds of amazing experiences, you need to get my products — what opened the door for these miracles to happen was the transformational work I did on myself before I ever landed there, including:

The 30-Day Abundance Challenge

The 30-Day Sexual Abundance Challenge

The 30-Day Personal Power Challenge

If you are serious about having this kind of magic and abundance in your life, you simply MUST make it a priority to get these products and apply them with commitment. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.

In other words, this guy was absolutely AMAZING, and I am the one who manifested him. I’m the one who created this experience for myself. I’m the one who can create this again, with him or with another partner. And that is not “random.” It’s a direct result of the inner game work that I did beforehand.

If you don’t get this first principle, nothing else I say is going to work for you and you may as well stop reading now.

2. Synchronicity

As I described in my article last week, this connection was almost unbelievable in terms of synchronicity, and there is no question this contributed to the magic of the experience. At first, it was as if I had manifested my “ex” all over again, except even better this time (read more here). This was important for me internally because it demonstrated to me that I am the power center of my experience. I don’t need to worry about “losing” anything or anyone because I can create it again and keep on improving it each time. Lol :) Anyway, there is absolutely no question in my mind that the power of this synchronicity is part of the reason I had sex, it just felt right, as if we had known each other for years. This is not a “tactic” or “technique” you can learn from any outer game coach. You must become a master manifestor to be able to create something this magical to your advantage.

3. Presence and Sincere Caring for Me and Other Women

This guy made huge points with me for sincerity and presence. He was really present with me when he was with me. One of his other lovers also happened to be around, and he treated her with respect also. This communicated his value system to me in a very powerful way.

4. Shared Values

All week long, it became abundantly clear how aligned our values are, which has not happened to me very often.

5. Radical Honesty

One of the most wonderful things right off the bat was how honest we could be with each other. Really exhilarating honesty. Wouldn’t have a relationship without this, and most guys don’t know how to be honest with themselves, much less with a woman. Huge huge points for this.

6. Polyamorous

Not all that surprising given that we were at Johnny’s workshop, but this man shares my desire for totally open relationships. In fact, we almost had a threesome the last night with another woman, but I chickened out. Would have been a great article. Oh well, next time ;)

7. Sense of humor

We laughed a lot all week long. He was very alive. Most men I meet are half-dead inside, which makes them totally uninteresting to date.

8. Extremely high awareness and can bring this into our sexuality

First man I’ve ever met who can coach me through my own inner shit while his hand is in my pussy. Huge points for this.

9. Understands the “process”

He didn’t freak out when I got triggered, and he was also willing to be vulnerable. In fact, we did a live Holistic Belief Reprogramming session for the entire group with him as my volunteer, and we went really, really deep with it. And over the course of the week, he heard me laugh, cry, scream (including with sex), go into a trauma response, and a whole other range of emotions, and he was able to stay connected through it all (as was I, by the way, when he got really angry and other intense emotions).

I don’t think I could date a guy at this point who doesn’t “get” the value of the transformational process.

Much much more …

All in all, it wasn’t just about sex. In fact, I don’t think any man could get me into bed for “just sex” – it doesn’t have any value to me. This was an experience, a deep connection, a perfect match and mirror for my own deep awareness and aliveness.

I feel like I got a glimpse of the future of sex, and it was really wonderful. I’m also super thrilled at the internal transformation that I’ve had over the past few months, and I know I can expect to be creating more of these experiences very soon, which brings us back to point #1:

1. Inner game preparation. First, no question about it, if you really want to have these kinds of amazing experiences, you need to get my products — what opened the door for these miracles to happen was the transformational work I did on myself before I ever landed there, including:

The 30-Day Abundance Challenge

The 30-Day Sexual Abundance Challenge

The 30-Day Personal Power Challenge

If you are serious about having this kind of magic and abundance in your life, you simply MUST make it a priority to get these products and apply them with commitment. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.

In other words, this guy was absolutely AMAZING, and I am the one who manifested him. I’m the one who created this experience for myself. I’m the one who can create this again, with him or with another partner. And that is not “random.” It’s a direct result of the inner game work that I did beforehand.

If you don’t get this first principle, nothing else I say is going to work for you and you may as well stop reading now.

About the Author:

Erika Awakening is a Harvard Law School graduate and former practicing attorney. She left the rat race to become a location-independent entrepreneur, holistic life coach, blogger, speaker, healer, and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT tapping) expert. Erika Awakening is one of the world's foremost experts on eradicating limiting beliefs and lifestyle design on your own terms. Learn more about Erika Awakening

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