Ever since I recorded the 30-Day Anger-Releasing Challenge — quickly followed by the 30-Day Worthiness Challenge and the 30-Day End Guilt & Self-Punishment Challenge that is still being recorded — it’s been raining men. Yes, men have been coming out of the woodwork. Men I had not heard from in ages and new men. Men, men, and more men, I also reconciled a significant relationship with a man who had not talked to me in years, easily and effortlessly.
None of this is surprising. Although I am not feeling fully heard yet on the issue, Anger is one of the biggest blocks to having what we want in life. And when we clear the anger away, magic starts to happen. Miracles start to happen. So it’s absolutely not surprising that suddenly all these men are interested in me.
I feel flattered by this and I appreciate the attention and the love. Yet I also need to make some things clear, for any of these men who are sincerely interested in being with me romantically or sexually.
It took a lot of dating experience on my part to figure something out: Romantic relationships that have no higher purpose have no purpose at all. Without a real purpose, a relationship has no “glue” to hold it together. And although this may be startling to some people, I do not believe that having children is enough of a purpose to hold a relationship together. It’s still too focused on the “specialness” of the relationships without a higher purpose. Don’t believe me? Look around and see how many children are not living with their biological parents … and there you have your answer.
The book A Course in Miracles explains this very well:
You perceive the world and everything in it as meaningful in terms of ego goals. These goals have nothing to do with your own best interests, because the ego is not you. This false identification makes you incapable of understanding what anything is for. As a result, you are bound to misuse it. When you believe this, you will try to withdraw the goals you have assigned to the world, instead of attempting to reinforce them.
Another way of describing the goals you now perceive is to say that they are all concerned with “personal” interests. Since you have no personal interests, your goals are really concerned with nothing. In cherishing them, therefore, you have no goals at all. And thus you do not know what anything is for.
Exactly. So any relationship that is concerned with “personal interests” – and most relationships are – is doomed because it has no real purpose. I will no longer participate in any such relationship, because they always lead to pain. I am done with pain :)
Which means if you want to be involved with me, you must share my purpose. My purpose is saving the world with Holistic Belief Reprogramming. Yes, literally saving the world. With Holistic Belief Reprogramming, we will ultimately end all wars, harmonize all relationships, end all disease and suffering, eradicate poverty, attain eternal youth and health for everyone, and even raise the dead. Yes, all this we will do.
Hopefully you can see how “getting dinner and a movie on Saturday night” no longer holds any appeal to me? And why the idea of spending time and energy on casual sex seems laughable? Zero appeal compared to my purpose.
So these are my must-haves in a partner:
1. Must be willing to learn Holistic Belief Reprogramming and already showing commitment to that
2. Must be good at business and sales, or willing to commit to learning fast
3. Must be a powerful teacher with his own audience, or willing to build an audience quickly
4. Must have as his purpose the salvation of the planet
Now don’t get me wrong. I’m not trying to tell you how to live your life. If you are not aligned with what I just said, we are not a match and it’s best we just acknowledge that up front. Also, if you have your own ideas about how we are going to save the planet, I am open to them. I’m not rigid or inflexible about how this will unfold. At the same time, the must-haves above are not negotiable. I won’t even invest in one date with you unless those must-haves are met.
If you haven’t bothered to learn what I teach, you are not seeing me. And not to be harsh, but any sexual or romantic interest you may have in me is pure projection and not going to go anywhere. Holistic Belief Reprogramming is my passion and my life. We will literally have nothing to talk about if you have not bothered to learn it.
So … I appreciate all the interest, and those who are sincere will read this article and my other articles and tapping along to my EFT tapping videos and be responding to me as a human being and divine child of God rather than as a fantasy object.
Thanks for your understanding. If you do have the four must-haves above, then I am very open to hearing from you.
Erika Awakening, High Priestess of Miracles at TAPsmarter
About the Author:
Erika Awakening is a Harvard Law School graduate and former practicing attorney. She left the rat race to become a location-independent entrepreneur, holistic life coach, blogger, speaker, healer, and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT tapping) expert. Erika Awakening is one of the world's foremost experts on eradicating limiting beliefs and lifestyle design on your own terms. Learn more about Erika Awakening
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