Yea one of the things I like about just being is it’s not “special” … we can just be with anyone. I don’t see anyone practicing that kind of universal love with sex. Too many agendas enter into it …

I too see sex the same way. I too like the idea of just hugging and breathing. Just holding on to somebody and breathing. It’s not boring at all. In fact, I’d rather just do that and just BE than have actual intercourse.

Yea I’m not even gonna try to figure it out anymore … just gonna let whatever wants to happen happen :)

Thanks for stopping by the blog again :)

My very existence seems to be a threat to ego at such a deep level that I’ve practically become a pariah.

… I resonate with that, and have felt that deeply… – just today received a comment from someone around me offering support to friends of a friend’s passing- that I was looking for attention- and that I was not qualified to offer my “gift” … I’m glad to know though – that that was the exception, – there were a number of others that reached out…

To me the pause of “just being” is like the zero point of the inhale/exhale… From stillness/beingness inspired action can arise, unbidden, and spontaneously.

“We’d probably just lie here, holding each other and breathing. :)” probably so. ;)

Thanks Manning … :)

You said: “I don’t know anyone on the planet who would share sex the same way they would a kind word, or a hug, or a handshake.”

I think this is a problem for many, yet it is precisely the philosophy we believe in. And I agree with Jack and Orn that holding someone and just breathing with her/him is not boring at all. That is precisely the beauty of loving sexual energy… it is what it needs to be, and no more or less… a place of total safety that one can breathe and relax in.

We have nothing to sell, no soapbox to climb on. Only a simple belief that sexual energy is not what our patriarchal society portrays, but a deep, abiding, beautiful energy that is intrinsic in every living thing we see… and indeed, in the very fabric of the universe.

Thank you for sharing so openly.

Welcome sisters :)

If only anything anyone talked about in this world were really love … and that is where we are … with an open question mark about what love means … It surely does not mean the special relationship nor any of the ways one ego relates to another, which pretty much wipes out our entire “civilization’s” definition of love …

It used to … when I still was living in the world of “story” to some degree … I’m hoping it’s just transitional, and yet I find myself at a stage where connecting with people is … for lack of a better phrase … not working. My very existence seems to be a threat to ego at such a deep level that I’ve practically become a pariah. I don’t know what else to say about it for now … except that I’ll keep tapping through it …