Comments on: Why Most Dating Advice Does Not Work, Part 3 … Seducing the Subconscious Mind is the Key to Getting What You Want

By: Miss Mercedes

Miss Mercedes — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 16:10:33 +0000

Erika: Thanks for the clarification. You scared me a bit. LOL. No, I agree, helping someone work through something, staying and listening (REALLY listening) is a good thing. I jumped to the conclusion that you were referring to someone beating *you* up with their words…not beating *themselves* up.

When it's me they're attacking though…I'm outta there…and pretty

By: Erika

Erika — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 02:41:03 +0000

Hi Mercedes,

I love your photo.

I don't think you and I disagree about this. I was talking about a different type of scenario. These decisions can only really be made moment to moment, but I agree with you that there are times of disrespect when intuition says to walk away. For me, this was not one of those circumstances. The person was beating himself up, and my

By: Miss Mercedes

Miss Mercedes — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 19:31:53 +0000

Erika: I like most of this but the part where you say:

"This is why I don't do what I see some other coaches doing, for example, some do "takeaways" with the subconscious mind. "I'm not even going to talk to you when you're being like this." Really? What kind of unconditional love is that? How is the subconscious mind going to trust me if I do that