I agree with you completely about spiritual equality. As you’ve mentioned before, we write in the symbols of the 3d world but we’re really speaking to something else …

I also only believe in “power with,” as you are saying. That’s a central tenet of NVC. I said Hypnotica was dominant, perhaps forceful would be a better word. In any event, I never said that I was “dominated.” I don’t ever really see myself as dominated anymore. But I do think that people who are congruent (i.e., their belief systems are integrated) tend to be experienced as more forceful because there’s less static in their vibe. A longer discussion …

Anyway, thanks as always for your spiritually-focused comments.

Love,
Erika

for u, did you give a pu guru more value than any other divine being? by giving value to someone or something, are you giving away your power? with all due respect to Czech Girl, does she deserve more value because of her looks and being on a reality show than the next fatty? if you want to teach men a divine seduction model, is it helpful to teach from a perspective that all beings are divinely equal regardless of 3d values? if you teach divine equality, do you think men would ever again fear all the hbs in the world?

if you ask youself, does jesus or buddha need to be dominant over anybody? again, dominance is ‘power over’ someone. if power is infinite (assuming abundance), do jesus/buddha need to have ‘power over’ someone or would they rather share ‘power with’ someone? is a relationship strong enough that both two divine beings can share equally with the greatest respects for ea. other? is that too much to ask for? :)

in my reality, i am not better or lower than anybody whether you are homeless, mystery, jesus, buddha, hb1000(that’s you+Czezh Girl combined right.. ;). everyone in world deserves equal respect. i fall short sometimes but i strive to do my best to live this philosophy…. all my love, paul

@ Paul, it’s an intriguing question, and I don’t know the answer. I do know that whereas in the past I tended to submit to a guy’s dominance, nowadays I tend not to, or at least not blindly. My core is strong enough now that I absorb what feels good to me and step aside from what doesn’t. If I don’t feel a recognition of spiritual equality and deep mutual respect in a relationship, then I step back until that balance is restored.

I love giving my vulnerability to men, it’s a huge gift that allows both of us to go deeper emotionally. It only works though in a space of non-judgment. If a guy is judging me, as some “dominant” men tend to do, then we are not in the right space for that kind of intimacy.

I’ll continue to percolate with this one. Thanks for the comment :)

See, this is how I work, I take your woo woo stuff and turn it into Danspeak.

ps. How does hypnotica move the energy/enter your dream state?

is it enjoyable or is it forced? what do you two do in those states. (if you don’t mind me asking)

Thank you.

the only other person I’ve seen transmit energy the way Hypnotica does is this guy, Jon Bernie: http://www.sf-satsang.org. Jon can literally transmit bliss, instantaneously, into another person’s body and being. it’s quite something to experience.

Welcome to the blog. What a wonderful synchronicity. If you’d like to see more videos of Hypnotica, Darius (whose blog is linked to mine) has several videos on his site. I’m quite fascinated by your intuitions about his strength of personality and him being a “real man,” if you’d be willingn to share more …

Hypnotica is definitely the real deal. He even has the power to enter people’s dreams, as he has done with me several times, including last night. It’s amazing how we can sense that kind of power just by someone’s vibe.

Anyway, I can’t help but feel that your seeing that video and finding this blog was not an accident, and I hope you’ll be sticking around …

cheers,
Erika

Just discovered your blog today and have really enjoyed reading your posts and following links. I knew nothing of the seduction community up until two days ago when I had an interesting experience.

I was on a crowded bus where I had to stand for the 45 minute morning trip. A guy with a seat next to where I was standing was watching some kind of movie on his ipod, so I watched over his shoulder. There was no sound so I amused myself by trying to figure out what he was watching. It seemed to be some kind of self help video, one guy talking to a small group of people. I became quite fascinated by the speaker, without having any idea what he was talking about. He was not particularly good looking, not well dressed, not young, but he was a real man. I could sense the strength of his personality watching him on that small screen, looking over a shoulder. I had to find out who he was and what he was talking about. Anyway I didnt have to ask any questions, as I saw there was some kind of title flashed onto the screen and I managed to catch the word Hypnotica. Oh good.. Google will know all about that I thought and went back to watching the silent speaker. I was not having any kind of sexual feelings, or any kind of fantasy romance about this guy, but he had me interested, and curious enough to search.

Anyway thats how I ended up here. Your post about Las Vegas was fascinating, I agree about the strength of the non verbal connection. Its actualy what I would tune into first if it is there.

Thanks for the blog!

Margaret

P.S. I have been in a happy poly relationship with two guys for 5 years. If you choose that lifestyle you have to be strong enough to not care what people think because they think (and say) some very nasty things.