Comments on: Which comes first, sex or marriage? And musings about pain and connection … https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/ How to Attract Money and Miracles with Erika Awakening Thu, 07 Aug 2014 23:47:38 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.4 By: Gayla https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7338 Thu, 26 Nov 2009 17:03:40 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7338 I wanted to comment on J's comment… I've been asking for Source to show me real couples who are truly happy with each other and I've started running into several… what I observed in one young couple who I first met over the summer is that they use what I sense is kundalini yoga practices every morning to transform the karmic conditions that perpetuates separation and

]]> By: J https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7337 Thu, 26 Nov 2009 15:01:22 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7337 Good post! I also wanted to add that true intimacy is more likely when both people are very internally fulfilled, and are not looking for a relationship to define them or to take away their pain.

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7336 Thu, 26 Nov 2009 01:17:43 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7336 For that matter, I have been manifesting cash left and right, too :-)

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7335 Thu, 26 Nov 2009 00:27:21 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7335 Marriage is for the weak

It has no place in modern day society

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7334 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:56:16 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7334 Does kinda look like you, huh? ;-)

]]> By: SMoKeLioN https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7333 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:51:11 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7333 Dear Erika,

Please remove the likeness of me from the photo on this article, even though I havent had sun-bleached hair and a tan for 3 months.

Your bullets you made all are so true. They're common ways people escape into their own minds.

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7332 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:47:26 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7332 Nick, that is certainly not what I meant. Intimacy can begin in joy, but deep intimacy is also very likely at some point to stir up pain. How we stay connected through that pain is what intrigues me.

Butterfly, thanks for your comment. Yeah, I don't see acknowledgment of someone else's view point as "giving away" my own. In a way, acknowledging all view points

]]> By: nick https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7331 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 19:29:55 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7331 Nice improvement over what they are teaching in Churches and Schools.

Allow me to analyze your…

The thing I do not like is that you presuppose women must be in pain before they can find intimacy. I know a lot of women who are intimate because I am strong enough to let them open up, not because they have to compensate for the weaknesses I share with them.

]]> By: Butterfly https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7330 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 17:50:38 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7330 HI Erika,

I feel that you can have a great marriage to someone you deeply love and are deeply loved by… Do you need to be sexual first to feel the connection with them? What if you just trusted yourself 100% that you could have that marriage and that sex would come as a natural part of getting married? When E suggested this, were you already emotionally invested in him? That can

]]> By: Henrik https://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7329 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 15:36:24 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/which-comes-first-sex-or-marriage-and-musings-about-pain-and-connection/#comment-7329 haha "unfriending someone on facebook" — i gotta try that, seems fun :P

thanks for sharing Erika ;)

One Love
– Henrik (no not from the positivity Blog :PP)

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