Comments on: What Is Good Sex?

By: Man Ccocx

Man Ccocx — Sun, 22 Jun 2014 00:32:44 +0000

"What is good sex?" Is a good article. I too, have been celibate for over a year now! I have total piece of mind, and happy, more happy than my last relationship! Strange but True! So.., I'm figuring this out that a relationship is about connection, in such a way that it is powerful when it is mutual, and that there has to be no fear of any kind! The connection is never based on what possessions anyone has! listening to your heart beats and respond accordingly…, For how long after staying this long without sleeping with a woman? How do I even begin to tell a woman about such experience, if I don't know what she is all about? With you because you are open, it is pleasure for me to be open to you…

By: Erika Awakening

Erika Awakening — Sat, 21 Jun 2014 19:50:05 +0000

In reply to Kundan.

Yes and I would add to that, for the relationship to have any value it must be an offering to the world. And so exclusion and specialness cannot be a part of it …

By: Kundan

Kundan — Sat, 21 Jun 2014 18:15:57 +0000

There was a time in my life last year when I felt the same. I was enjoying being with the Presence so much that I realized that my primary relationship would always be with the Presence. And these days, I feel the same way. “Is being with her worth intruding into the joy of Solitude?” That’s my criteria for being with a woman. My second criteria is: “Would we be able to co-create something beautiful together that would heal the world and make it a better place” And yes, the answer can be a Yes only if the woman has done her inner work.

By: Erika Awakening

Erika Awakening — Sat, 21 Jun 2014 17:38:58 +0000

In reply to Manccocx.

Hi Manccocx, thanks for commenting. Yes celibacy can be quite a powerful experience, especially for letting go of our stories (e.g., http://erikaawakening.com/without-your-story).

I agree possessions don’t need to be important, but if someone has a “lack of money” story running, that certainly creates interference with presence for me. Those who recognize they have everything never need to be in a place of lack with money.

When we start questioning our stories, everything starts to shift …

By: Manccocx

Manccocx — Sat, 21 Jun 2014 17:35:58 +0000

“What is good sex?” Is a good article. I too, have been celibate for over a year now! I have total piece of mind, and happy, more happy than my last relationship! Strange but True! So.., I’m figuring this out that a relationship is about connection, in such a way that it is powerful when it is mutual, and that there has to be no fear of any kind! The connection is never based on what possessions anyone has! listening to your heart beats and respond accordingly…, For how long after staying this long without sleeping with a woman? How do I even begin to tell a woman about such experience, if I don’t know what she is all about? With you because you are open, it is pleasure for me to be open to you…

By: Krista Nepenthe

Krista Nepenthe — Fri, 20 Jun 2014 20:31:06 +0000

Brilliant and so needed right now