Comments on: The Art of Seduction: Vegas Seduction, part 1

By: Erika Awakening

Erika Awakening — Sat, 21 Jul 2012 20:47:26 +0000

In reply to B.

Lol, hotness is in the eye of the beholder :)

By: B

Sat, 21 Jul 2012 16:22:37 +0000

The way you describe yourself, pics you have of yourself on your site, and how a man must be phenomenal to have even remotest chance with you – you’re full of shit, an ego maniac and to be candid, not that hot.

Suck on that one, guru.

By: EFT4MeDebi

EFT4MeDebi — Tue, 26 Jun 2012 19:31:17 +0000

This comment is directed to ‘S’…” every woman in truth wants a strong thoroughly masculine man to be dominant and just “claim” her… most women may not admit it but that is their secret truth”…HUH? I normally don’t comment to other remarks. But I couldn’t resist. When U say “every women in truth” Forgive me but do You see that U are stereotyping? All women or all men can not be categorized in any situation. All people are different. You can’t speak for all women either. Think about it…Would a gay women want a strong dominant man to just ‘claim her? I’m not gay & there’s no way I’d want a guy with a caveman mentality. I’m sorry but I’ve asked other women & some of them where just as astounded that a women in this day & age could say that. Sure there are SOME women who might think like that, BUT ALL WOMEN? Absolutely not, just as U can’t lump all men in one group & decide they all think alike as well. Sorry if this sounds harsh but after that statement U then turned your entire comment around to lament about some guy who broke your heart. I don’t think Ms. Erika was looking for the ‘Love of her life, wedding bells & all that’ with the recounting of her Vegas adventure. When U described your ‘Mr. Perfect’ nightmare, just moments after saying ” no man is perfect”… U totally confused me. ” I am still in love with him, I will never get over him, the burden of his memories etc! Whoa~ If this guy so devastated U how could U say that your still in love with him? Love isn’t hurting or devastating someone & dumping them. It sounds like U are still young, recounting a teenage hormonally induced infatuation. Of course U will get over him. It just takes a little time & then when U next focus your attention on the right guy maybe just enjoying yourself with him will do it. When I was young people told me, the best way to get over a guy was when U met another. Your mind focuses on a new romance & then one day after your the Ex-Mrs. Wonderful U will eventually find your way to a site like this. Where U can associate with other like minded individuals who have found that they don’t need to look outside of themselves to find the Love of their life. Peace!

By: Dipesh Gautam

Dipesh Gautam — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 11:03:25 +0000

Beautiful

By: Erika Awakening

Erika Awakening — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 15:31:32 +0000

In reply to S.

Hi S,

Thank you for your comment … I appreciate you bringing your heartfelt experience here … it sounds like you have been through a great deal of pain.

On the other hand, I feel confident you did not come here for me to give sympathy, because I don’t do that. I’d rather give you something that would actually help.

So if you’re open to some provocative questions, I am curious how much turnaround work you’ve done on this situation.

I ask because I’ve had my own share of heartbreaks, and what has worked to heal them, especially when I’m playing victim, is to turn the whole thing around, and recognize the places in my life where I am DOING what I’m accusing the other person of doing. (Shadow work)

If I’m playing victim, it probably means I’m not taking accountability somewhere in my life …

One thing I know FOR SURE: you are NOT broken as a person. You are still powerful, and you can step back into your power NOW.

It only takes an instant. It’s your choice.

I’d love to see you back here again :)

Love,
Erika

By: S

Mon, 19 Jul 2010 09:35:31 +0000

hi there,
just stumbled onto ur site via facebook – dont ask, not really sure how myself! – and after reading this article, i want to just point out that what you are describing is simply the caveman syndrome. every woman in truth wants a strong thoroughly masculine man (v. few and far between in this day and age) to be dominant and just “claim” her… most women may not admit it but that is their secret truth…a man who does not beat around the bush, who simply with his eyes can make her feel incredibly desirable and sexy, who does not bother with polite delay tactics and waste of time. well, guess what? even when you find that man, or he finds you, and its the most thrilling roller coaster of a ride you could possibly imagine, even that doesnt guarantee any happiness in the end. because once the adrenalin isnt pumping so much, once the high dissipates and you come back down on terra firma, the reality can tear your life apart. because no matter how unbelievably manly and amazing he is, he also definitely knows the impact he has on women, and his ego will get in the way. no man is perfect, so if mr perfect comes along, guaranteed his achilles heel will come with him, and it may be too much to handle. what you are describing as your vegas incident is i can guarantee NOTHING to what happened to me two years ago, when mr perfect found me. for the first time in 33 years i fell in love, and i fell HARD. it was like God looked into my heart, soul and mind, pulled out all the info on the kind of man i wanted to spend my whole life with, and then constructed him ingredient for ingredient as i imagined him, dreamt him. but fairy tales have a way of turning into horror stories, and mr. perfect was able to take every single thing that i valued from me, and then set fire to my life and walk away. i know that i am still in love with him, and there is not one hour of my life when i dont think about him. i know i will never get over him, and the burden of my memories and my heartache is something that i will have to carry with me till my dying day. that burden which has plagued not just me but everyone around me because when we are hurting, all the people who care about us are not untouched by the pain. the damage he did has reverberated far and wide and has broken me as a person. i try and be strong and move on and live, but the magic of this life, this world is gone. so whats my point? meeting mr perfect is not always a good thing. women should look beyond the animal magnetism and try and see the guy who may be fumbling, who may not be as smooth and dominant, but may have a kinder heart, a more compassionate soul, and a more tolerant and patient attitude – perhaps instead of dismissing him immediately give him a chance, and look at your own shortcomings as well while you are at it. as for your own personal experience, all i can say, i hope you never go through what ive been through, and i hope its happily ever after for u.

By: Erika Awakening

Erika Awakening — Fri, 16 Jul 2010 12:18:27 +0000

In reply to K.

Welcome, K. The 7-day course is no longer available. If there is enough demand to cover the costs, it may be turned into a product at some point.

By: Erika Awakening

Erika Awakening — Fri, 16 Jul 2010 12:16:49 +0000

In reply to MIke.

Welcome, Mike … If you don’t mind me saying, I hear a lot of fear and judgment in your comment and not much openness to people …

By: MIke

MIke — Fri, 16 Jul 2010 12:14:12 +0000

Most women these days are too concerned about stalkers and are tired of being stared at so I am having doubts about the story, sounds like a sales job, at least thats my experience. The oldlines don;t work anymore. Most women are too shallow and into themselves to sense anything anyways, just my opinion. Mike

By: K

Fri, 16 Jul 2010 06:51:28 +0000

How do you watch the 7-day video course? I just signed up and I can’t find it on this site.