Comments on: The Voices of Pain: Unraveling Judgments and Finding our Feelings and Unmet Needs https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/ How to Attract Money and Miracles with Erika Awakening Thu, 14 Aug 2014 05:47:58 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 By: Poetry of Flesh https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/#comment-6082 Thu, 14 May 2009 21:34:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs-2/#comment-6082 Ah, thank you for clarifying. I have a hard time understanding your operating baseline because it is so very different from my own. It’s good to be able to hear where you are coming from and actually have it make sense to me.

I do agree with you, now that I understand exactly what you were getting at, about people in pain actively communicating pain to others via their words.
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]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/#comment-6069 Wed, 13 May 2009 01:11:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs-2/#comment-6069 hi Random Stranger,

Thanks for rolling through and commenting …

I agree with you at the highest level of course. All words, thoughts, and concepts are judgments, so until we move beyond them into silence, there will be “judgment.”

I disagree with you though about what I am doing. I appreciate the opportunity that you have given me to clarify.

In a

]]> By: Poetry of Flesh https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/#comment-6067 Tue, 12 May 2009 21:43:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs-2/#comment-6067 Hey Erika,

Random stranger rolling through, hope you don’t mind the (what I’m sure is going to be overly long) input.

Before I start my commentary, I want to let you know that I’m enjoying your blog, and the ideas/driving force behind it, and I’m looking forward to seeing how things develop for you, and learning about the different principles you are going to be applying to

]]> By: SMoKeLioN https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/#comment-6066 Tue, 12 May 2009 10:17:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs-2/#comment-6066 “SMoKeLioN, in general, I’m with you. I have lots of guys in my life who are friends or flirtations or teachers or connectors or whatever. We enjoy each other without any deeper commitment. The difference between you and me is that I don’t have sex with them. Otherwise, it’s probably similar.

My point is that sometimes a connection is so amazing that “leaving all the options open” is

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/#comment-6065 Tue, 12 May 2009 04:40:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs-2/#comment-6065 “I dont think relationships that dont have marriage in their future are necessarily wastes of time. Thats as long as the person keeps their eyes open for what they want more and doesnt forget that fact or hesitate in going for it.”

SMoKeLioN, in general, I’m with you. I have lots of guys in my life who are friends or flirtations or teachers or connectors or whatever. We enjoy each

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/#comment-6063 Tue, 12 May 2009 01:23:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs-2/#comment-6063 Actually, Anonymous 2:00 pm,

I feel pretty good about the exchange with SMoKeLioN. I made a “guess” and was willing to be wrong. SMoKeLioN clarified. Now I feel like I have a better sense of where he was coming from …

]]> By: Daria https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/#comment-6061 Mon, 11 May 2009 21:33:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs-2/#comment-6061 That is true, they are not necessarily a waste of time… as long as it feels good!

If it doesn’t feel good, it’s worse than a waste of time…

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/#comment-6060 Mon, 11 May 2009 21:00:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs-2/#comment-6060 “Okay, now if I take an empathetic guess at SMoKeLioN’s feelings and unmet needs here”

… Erika proceeds to make a vast sweeping judgment… then tells us judgments are wrong and she makes no judgments.

Erika is sooooo egoless.

]]> By: SMoKeLioN https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/#comment-6059 Mon, 11 May 2009 19:30:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs-2/#comment-6059 “What I don’t hear you acknowledging is the value of empty “space.” Sometimes in my life I have stayed in a relationship situation despite it not being what I wanted, and wasted a lot of time. Whereas empty space tends to be a vacuum that pulls in a new guy or a new situation.”

I dont think relationships that dont have marriage in their future are necessarily wastes of time. Thats as

]]> By: Daria https://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs/#comment-6058 Mon, 11 May 2009 18:08:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-voices-of-pain-unraveling-judgments-and-finding-our-feelings-and-unmet-needs-2/#comment-6058 Haha… I feel amused.

I feel entertained by the witty discussion going on here…

Erika I sent you an e-mail… I’m feeling concerned about whether or not you got it… the address starts with my first name and is from hotmail…

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