Comments on: The Erotic Language of Feelings: Can You Hold All of a Woman’s Emotions? https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/ How to Attract Money and Miracles with Erika Awakening Thu, 14 Aug 2014 06:03:22 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 By: Daria https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/#comment-6524 Sat, 27 Jun 2009 08:29:36 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions-2/#comment-6524 UGHHH I FEEL FRUSTRATED

No, emotional manipulation is when you do something to take advantage of a person… it has a negative tendency..

Change her mood, not her mind… means put the woman in a good mood if you want her to feel better… don't try to convince her to feel better… just DO something to make her feel better… especially like a joke… I love it when I

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/#comment-6523 Sat, 27 Jun 2009 03:56:14 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions-2/#comment-6523 ""Change her mood, not her mind."

isn't that emotional manipulation?

]]> By: Dan https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/#comment-6516 Fri, 26 Jun 2009 03:46:30 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions-2/#comment-6516 I think I get it. If a man "claims" you, you need to know that he can weather any emotional storm you – inadvertent as it may be – may throw at him. If he can't, how strong is his claim after all?

Right track?

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/#comment-6514 Fri, 26 Jun 2009 02:27:13 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions-2/#comment-6514 Daria, I'm with you …

And … guys, please realize that if she is "freaking out" and having a major tantrum, especially if this is not her usual style, what it means is nothing more and nothing less than that something (which may or may not have anything to do with you) has touched very deep pain inside her.

What she needs is to feel that pain fully so that

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/#comment-6513 Fri, 26 Jun 2009 02:05:34 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions-2/#comment-6513 Daria,

lol, "you don't have to be a POST."

]]> By: Daria https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/#comment-6512 Fri, 26 Jun 2009 01:19:28 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions-2/#comment-6512 Breaking down in front of others is not the "sharing of emotions" I was talking about…

what I mean by sharing an emotion is a plain spoken

"I feel upset… or I feel happy.. or I feel angry"

not a tantrum or a breakdown or an attack

This is crucial to communication. However, a really enlightened man can recognize and hold even the

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/#comment-6511 Thu, 25 Jun 2009 21:17:39 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions-2/#comment-6511 I'm not sure if someone expressing their emotions in your presence is always a gift. Emotions happen all the time, left and right, between strangers, and between co-workers. If a co-worker flips out or breaks down in the presence of others, sometimes it's just timing. It's just randomness, and tipping points.

This is a must understand, while discussing all of these

]]> By: Daria https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/#comment-6510 Thu, 25 Jun 2009 20:51:29 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions-2/#comment-6510 Dan –

yes… holding space for her emotions means pretty much letting her express them without you freaking out or going into defense, withrawing or blaming…

sometimes guys I have talked to do this by being quiet, pausing, then expressing their thoughts…

I dono about the he's a fixed point, shes wildly rafting thing… that doesn't resonate with me

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/#comment-6509 Thu, 25 Jun 2009 20:31:25 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions-2/#comment-6509 p.s.

It also sounds like this could be slippery footing here. Meaning, if one's not careful while holding space, they could easily slip and slide into "saving" mode. And one should NOT under any circumstances try save someone else emotionally (man or woman).

Note: It's perfectly okay to physically save someone, and by this I mean reach out and keep

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions/#comment-6508 Thu, 25 Jun 2009 20:20:35 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/the-erotic-language-of-feelings-can-you-hold-all-of-a-womans-emotions-2/#comment-6508 Thanks. From your other post I now know what you may mean by collapsing, basically arguing or reasoning. And from that other post this is close to what I'm looking for in terms of understanding holding space, but the way it's described it's still a little mysterious:

"The second man (who I later found out was a coach) connected with me through my sadness. He used

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