Comments on: Mark Manson Seduction: Some Great Examples of a Man Leading (Turn Ons!)

By: Seduction Community Synchronicities :-) - Erika Awakening

Seduction Community Synchronicities :-) - Erika Awakening — Mon, 04 Aug 2014 05:11:19 +0000

[…] trip. The main focus is that I’ve been hanging out and having a really blissful time with Mark Manson. But I’ll save that for another post, on Deep Comfort Game, cuz when it comes to real […]

By: Baha

Baha — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 15:17:00 +0000

Wow why are you so weepy about life? That’d be a huge turn off or me if a girl was that down. I usually bring people up all the time, its what I do but I don’t like to hang around those people that eventually will just pull me down..

I am not saying that If I’m in a relationship I won’t listen to my girl and her issues. I’m just saying that early in a relationship this might kill attraction…

By: Erika

Erika — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 18:17:00 +0000

Thanks for the comments, guys, I really appreciate them. More than you know!

Yes, Beau6268, there is so much subtle subcommunication going on between a man and a woman about what they want from the relationship. I am not interested in sex-only relationships, so I try to make it clear to guys I date that for me sex is only enjoyable in the context of a deeper, longer-term, emotionally connected relationship. If they are interested in that, too, I feel much more comfortable with them if they make that clear to me.

By: Beau6268

Beau6268 — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 05:49:00 +0000

Thank God we have women in the community. This helped me realize what you are looking for when it comes to LTR Vs. SNL. and the kind of things you are looking for. Do you like it for guys to be more direct with their intentions like with whether or not he wants a LTR vs. a SNL? Good insight for myself. becoming concsious of being empathtic with sharing painful emotions. I did that before and was empathetic and to keep things in a positive mindset during the interaction, but wasn’t concsiously trying to be empathetic and not judge because I learned to do that in PU. Its good to know that I was already on the right path, and that I should continue to do so.

By: Maleko

Maleko — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 04:52:00 +0000

Thank you for explaining the “you’re being very dramatic” part. I wish I could get away with saying something like that sometimes cause when I say something like that it always it’s by accident and I don’t really mean it. Anyways, this is a kick ass post.

By: T. AKA Ricky Raw

T. AKA Ricky Raw — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 21:54:00 +0000

So rare to see this stuff examined so well from a female point of view. Good job.

By: Infinity

Infinity — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 20:24:00 +0000

I agree with Entropy, here. Bringing you back to reality in a playful and comforting way is a great way to lead. You have to admire a quality like that and in a way, you look up to that, which is very attractive.

To be a leader, you have to have people look up to you, in a way. The conversation is a tell-tale sign that you actually look up to him because he has a playful and comforting sense of reality that tends to your emotions and the skeletons that you may reveal hanging in your closet.

By: Entropy4

Entropy4 — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 19:31:00 +0000

When he calls you a wuss and says you're being dramatic, I see it as a form of "tough love." He's not telling you what you WANT to hear, but he's telling you what he thinks you NEED to hear at that moment, even if it isn't pleasant.

When people are upset, they tend to retreat to their own narrow perspective. I think what he's doing is jarring you back to the larger reality, that this isn't the end of the world and it's actually part of a much greater process.

Either way, good stuff.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 18:35:00 +0000

you and your celibacy gimme a headache.

what would yyou do if a guy just said calmly to you the following " fuck the games already and lets fuck for real right now!"

Quick.