Hi Michele, yea at this point I’m pretty happy with no kids and single also. I’ve really learned to appreciate the freedom. And I have such strong values that living together has to be a really good fit. Like my brother was here for a month recently and he has adapted well to the kitchen needs to be cleaned, no meat in the house, and so forth. I haven’t always found other people to adapt well to basic guidelines lol :)

Well yea .. time/space is an illusion … so those who are tuned in can sense things and can have psychic experiences … cool stuff :)

And thats cool u can sense things to! My intuition tells me about peoples past or it gives me directions. Like I guessed this chicks last name, and it was her former last name. Its crazy cause I can predict stuff amd feel peoples intentions. Before I got scared because I felt I wasnt grasping somthing or I was missing out. But llately now im just like watev more chill about it, like im trusting somthing will come into my life to teach me how to utilize psychic energy. I wanna stay positive so I wont go into detail, but a while ago I saved this chick by seating by her, my intuition told me not to move and I thought it was funny that therw were empty seats around, but my intuition gave me a nasty feeling when I thought of moving, so I stayed put and everyone was fine. And we had some surprising things in common as well, like heart stoping things. So Ive been aable to tell about peoples jobs, names of people they know, future things n other things

In a conventional relationship, yes, people do it all the time. We could have a long conversation about whether they are ever really successful with it … and yet I’m not here to tell others what to do.

I’m expressing what’s right for me. The way I know what my life purpose is – is by my passions. I do not want to be with any man who does not share my purpose. Therefore, by extension, he will share my passions. Is it likely he will have areas where he is stronger, and areas where I am stronger, and complement each other. Yes, synergy is great. Without shared passion, there is nothing I actually want in a relationship. I’d rather be single.

Thanks for commenting :)

You wrote “If he is not passionate about what I am passionate about … there is NO basis for an enduring relationship. End of story”

I don’t think that’s true at all. People can have very different passions and interests and still have a beautiful relationship together. Moreover, I believe there is power and room for growth where there are differences between people..

You are welcome.:-)

Thanks Elaine. Yes, exactly … I think unconsciously I always knew what was best for me … yet I felt shame because I had not yet shed society’s expectations. I could not see that I was actually choosing – albeit unconsciously – to maintain my freedom. And right now I’m feeling pretty grateful for my freedom … thanks for commenting :)