Yes indeed plus as the sexual side of the relationship unfolds, it actually can be way better for the anticipation and intimacy that’s already been built

(says the woman who recently had one of the most amazing nights in bed she’s ever had and no P penetration as yet)

Yes!!! Slow is the only way to go, really.. Going at a snail’s pace gives time enough opportunity to expose the essence of who a person really is.. for better or worse.

Plus, it saves us from that gut-wrenching feeling that happens when we realize we’ve shared an intimate part ourselves with someone who ultimately didn’t appreciate, respect or deserve to experience that part of us.

Thanks again for your insight!

Thanks Nikki, I appreciate your comment. Yep I like to take it very, very slooooowwwww …

Thanks John, I appreciate you stopping by. I find the slow approach leads to way less resentment in the long run. When it becomes clear it’s not a match, there can be a graceful, drama-free exit.

So true! Can’t go wrong with the “slow and steady” route… but it could still end up on the LoveTrain! Good luck to you!

If it’s really love, it won’t mind taking it slowly and going the “touchless tantra” route … releasing a bit of energy at a time … most of what people call “love” is anything but …

Thanks Cristina. I’m glad it resonates with you. Yes it can feel lonely for sure, especially when you’re no longer “playing the game.”