Comments on: Inviting men to a whole new level of intimacy … https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/ How to Attract Money and Miracles with Erika Awakening Tue, 29 Dec 2009 16:56:23 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 By: Phoenix https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7562 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 16:56:23 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7562 I heard a podcast awhile back and the author talked about there really only being 2 emotion's and everything we "feel" is based in these 2 emotions Love and fear.

Fear is a powerful emotion and usually cause's us to make bad decision's, fear of rejection, fear of being hurt emotionally/physically, these cause us to run away.

Love on the other hand cause

]]> By: Turin*otzaki https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7559 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 14:58:44 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7559 Erika said "We all need a non-judgmental space where we can express ourselves freely and relax without fear of being judged or abandoned".

Totally agree! We just cant connect with people with fear in our faces, and its not practical for us to be around people who feel'dangerous' emotionally to us.

Though I think that our fear of being judged or abandoned

]]> By: McSmokey https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7558 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 13:24:08 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7558 What happens when a woman start to feel intimacy growing but is afraid of intimacy (not just sexual intimacy).

I know its something she needs to deal with and she said it herself from the beginning but still I am clueless..

anyway this time its "broken" but what to do if this occur again?

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7557 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 03:53:28 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7557 Ana, you need to get laid

]]> By: Phoenix https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7556 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 02:20:47 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7556 Erika I started on a journey about 2 yrs ago it started with The Mystery method in my study as a PUA i got to a point where I wanted more, this has led me on a journey I never imagined, the connection's I have been making have been simply incredible, I have also done exactly what you describe and have recently been working on changing that, I guess the old saying of "when a student is

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7555 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 01:20:27 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7555 Sid here…

I think this is very powerful stuff. I think more people should be versed in this style of acceptance and communication. For the right girl.

A girl can't have carte blanche nail the dude with vituperations either.

I dated a girl once, who frequently criticized me toward the end of our relationship. I had to get out. There is a fine line between

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7554 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 00:15:22 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7554 This is what I'm finding, Anwer.

Most people avoid conflict. This is compounded by the fact that most conventional wisdom promotes avoiding conflict. So after a breakup, we are supposed to "move on" and "play it cool," "pretend not to care," etc.

Which is fine except pretty universally this is not how anyone actually feels, and it doesn&#

]]> By: Synth https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7553 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 00:14:39 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7553 I like how you mention "He's essentially saying that it's not okay for her to have the feelings she has." So often in today's society we feel we have to defend our feelings. Why? If they are MY feelings, they aren't right or wrong, they are simply my feelings. Nobody else can tell me otherwise (anymore, that is!). I spent so much of my life trying to be accepted by

]]> By: Anwer https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7552 Mon, 28 Dec 2009 23:55:51 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7552 Yes we need honesty. I think that by removing the fear of judgment and abandonment, you are trying to create the best context for honest communication. That way we can cover a lot of ground in a short amount of time, rather than these difficult stalemates that take months to unwind. Cooperation is great when we can get it.

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7551 Mon, 28 Dec 2009 23:46:18 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/inviting-men-to-a-whole-new-level-of-intimacy/#comment-7551 Anwer,

Ah, you see, I don't view it as a communication breakdown.

I take a very long term view on these things.

It requires a lot of faith.

I've had situations where radical honesty resulted in people not talking to each other for months, but ultimately it resulted in breakTHROUGHS that nobody could achieve for years before that.

I

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