Back from Vegas. Feeling exhausted but very happy :)
This article is all about manifesting our hearts’ desires through congruent intention, and as my loyal readers know, I’ve never found a more powerful way of achieving congruent intention than What Is Holistic Belief Reprogramming?.
Ever hear the mantra “Have a threesome, gain a new business partner”? Yeah, I hadn’t either. But it turns out that if you are Erika A., the mantra is true, true indeed.
Recently, I’ve been writing about a few of my heart’s desires, which include
(1) exploring polyamorous relationships, and
(2) manifesting the perfect fit for a marketing and technical partner.
I have been systematically erasing my limiting beliefs using EFT, 15- Week Miracle Coaching Program.
I have also been systematically clarifying my vision of what I want, because the Genie of the Universe can only give us what we want if we give him really clear instructions.
Just a week ago, for example, I described in detail to one of my mentors exactly what I had been waiting for marketing-wise. I wanted someone who has already done the marketing thing in this industry successfully, who would do most of the technical and copywriting, and who would interview me to learn my vision, then help me implement it all step by step. Basically holding my hand the entire time. A lot of people told me it was too much to ask.
Similarly, I have become more and more convinced that a permanently committed poly relationship is indeed my heart’s desire. So I’ve been wanting to explore this more.
Well, lo and behold, after all this clearing and clarifying, I felt a major shift over New Year’s, and moved into this deep state of acceptance of the moment exactly as it is. (Maybe it was all the Holosync gamma compassion meditation I’ve been doing lately.) When I felt this shift into total acceptance, I knew something big would happen soon. I knew I was due for a miracle.
Fast forward a week from New Year’s. For the past four days, a large group of us have been attending Johnny Soporno’s Vegas workshop.
Leave it to the brilliance of the Genie of the Universe to come up with something this marvelous: both my desires at the same time :)
Not only did I get to spend a lot of time with several people whose versions of polyamory I admire a lot, including Johnny, Terrance Thames, and John Litchenberg.
Not only did I get to attend the Ultimate After Party, a beautiful play party and a microcosm of what the world can and will be when sexual shame has been erased …
Not only did I have the most awesome-est sexy roommate (the woman who braved White Tiger Tantra a year ago, and continues to inspire me with her boldness) …
But also, I got to have my own *very* sexy threesome :)
(The only thing that breaks my heart about it is that it was SO seamless that I cannot for the life of me remember how we got from the living room to the bedroom. As a teacher, I pride myself on being able to share these details with you, and this one was so organic and natural that, well, it “just happened.” Lol :-p)
Anyway, it gets better. The day after said threesome, out of the blue, one of my threesome partners and I got to talking business … and it looks like he IS my new business partner. He fits the description of what I had described to my mentor a week ago EXACTLY. We were brainstorming for hours, and I have not been so excited about an industry conversation in a *very* long time.
He’s now coming to San Francisco in a few days to help make this dream a reality. Starting with my very first official video product, an introductory guide to Erika Awakening Coaching Page.
What can I say? Sometimes it pays to be very, very naughty.
Why do I have such a strong feeling that it only gets more and more amazing from here?
:)
Mmm, we have two choices don't we?
We can look at "past experience," create limiting beliefs about past experience, and become more careful. Unfortunately, if we do that unfortunately our world will get smaller and smaller.
Or we can look at past experience, notice the limiting beliefs we formed, tap them away, and be open to new and more empowering outcomes
"I'm pretty convinced that having only one sexual partner is not a helpful situation for a woman. I see myself either with none or many."
Nice Quote.
However I'm cerious to what your thoughts are about having a business partner you've had sexual episodes with ;) might that not go wrong in some stage? We have all seen it before.
Honey, we are talking polyamory. More cock and pussy than anyone can handle. :-p
"I'm pretty convinced that having only one sexual partner is not a helpful situation for a woman. I see myself either with none or many."
No sane man out there with a lot of options on his hand will be willing to share you with other men and invest in you deeply (i.e. like a wife) at the same time unless you bring him even more pussy than he can handle.
I'm pretty convinced that having only one sexual partner is not a helpful situation for a woman. I see myself either with none or many.
Surprisingly then, a 3some is probably more likely to help me let go of LMR than a 2some. There was something very liberating about it :)
it's not a 3-some if there isn't intercourse. u might as well just be getting together for a night out with the girls.
No intercourse?!!! Is that still a threesome then? Oh well… did you at least get licked?
I still feel led on. Where's the full on lay report?
No need, Anon. I didn't have intercourse.
Did u use a condom?
What happened to abstinence?
Thats really cool that you're open about your life. Respect
K (from Facebook),
Thank you for putting it so beautifully. That's exactly how it felt to me, very much opening up stagnant energies and connecting to the spiritual through the physical. I don't have the sense I would have felt the same way in a one-on-one situation.
This felt like we were opening portals, so to speak, lol ;)
Love,
Erika
Thank you for giving my middle of the night insomnia binge something to grin about ;) I have many friends who've explored the poly relationships and it's helped them from being too stagnant and opened the door to connecting the spiritual while satisfying the physical.
That's one heck of a business plan! They sure didn't teach that in business school.
Congratulions, I wish you the best! I've only once had a business partner who was also a lover and it really worked out well for a long, long time. It doesn't get much better than that.
Adam
Setting intentions whether subtly or outwardly with a system can have very positive results.
Threesomes can be very fun.
Last year I got into a polyandrous relationship for about ten weeks. It worked very well sexually. The gift was that I could overcome some beliefs that told me I couldn't do this successfully and that it takes evolved participants to move forward.