Comments on: How karma works … reflections on joint LR https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/ How to Attract Money and Miracles with Erika Awakening Mon, 04 Aug 2014 06:04:02 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.4 By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7570 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 17:35:56 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7570 Sunil,

If I may suggest a question to ask yourself …

Rather than succumbing to the knee-jerk reaction to judge what I am doing, you could ask yourself …

huh, I wonder why a highly conscious dating coach is doing what she is doing in these posts.

I'm revealing to you a very very powerful process for transforming your life.

I am leading

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7569 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 15:52:33 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7569 Sunil,

What I'm hearing in your comments (some of which I'm not publishing because they don't meet my need for respect is two main things:

(a) You put dating coaches and other spiritual "gurus" in a category "above" other people and expect them to not have intense feelings or any problems, and

(b) You find it very challenging to be

]]> By: Sacred Beauty Project https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7536 Sun, 27 Dec 2009 23:53:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7536 Thank you for noting the really important things… Renegotiate your agreements before you break them so that BOTH people have made a choice… have had time to work through any fears or blocks and are able to go in the next direction free of hurt, empowered by the conversation and process, even if the direction the two of you choose is not to go forward together.

A friend of mine said

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7525 Sat, 26 Dec 2009 19:16:37 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7525 Thank you very much Erika. That does help.

I'm not perfect, but I've tried to be honest. We both had recently LTRs. Upfront she asked what I wanted, and I said I don't know. I really didn't. I told her I do like her and time with her (not just sex, but other things like talking, joking, and watching nature).

I asked her, and she said she didn't

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7524 Sat, 26 Dec 2009 17:37:53 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7524 Oh also, take responsibility. If you made mistakes, admit them.

Don't act as if it's "no big deal" if you spent months creating expectations that you're now going to bail on. It IS a big deal, and it's not going to create harmony to pretend that it's not.

Don't try to convert an-otherwise celibate girl who made clear to you that she's

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7523 Sat, 26 Dec 2009 17:06:13 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7523 Hi A,

I'm more focused on now than I am on back then, except to explain why I have been so pissed off.

Yeah, I can give a few suggestions.

1. Radical honesty – learn how to communicate non-violently, if you don't already, so that you can express your truth on a continuing, moment to moment basis without reverting to judgments of the other person.

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7522 Sat, 26 Dec 2009 16:54:53 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7522 Hi Erika,

Thanks for your open expression. It takes some guts to run through your experience like that.

To reveal your experience with the great fraternity guy, and to further reveal your experience with E.

I'm not exactly like E, but I started something casual with a girl, then we both got more involved, but for whatever reason I'm coming to a point

]]> By: Ben Dover https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7520 Sat, 26 Dec 2009 13:49:43 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7520 Karma is not a bitch. A bitch is a bitch.

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7519 Fri, 25 Dec 2009 21:20:36 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7519 Gayla,

Thanks for the comment and for seeing the intention here, which is healing of that which will never be healed if we simply "move on."

The first step to transmuting karma is awareness. In an interpersonal situation like this one, both people need to see the dynamic clearly so that something new and much more life-affirming can be co-created.

This

]]> By: Gayla https://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7518 Fri, 25 Dec 2009 21:16:34 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-karma-works-reflections-on-joint-lr/#comment-7518 I wanted to thank you for writing this post.

I've sat with this one for a few days… I don't think that unless it was for your writing these posts that I would ever be able to see what I've been caught in clearly enough to be able to face what's really happened.

I think I would believe all the garbage a con man has to say because, unless you stuck it out

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