Comments on: How early to have sex: challenging the seduction community’s conventional wisdom https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/ How to Attract Money and Miracles with Erika Awakening Thu, 14 Aug 2014 05:32:31 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.4 By: Honey https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/#comment-5986 Wed, 06 May 2009 15:58:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom-2/#comment-5986 I go back and forth on this (probably because it is so personal and individual). On the one hand, I had over 40 sexual partners before I was 27, almost all of them casual because as soon as I slept with a guy then I had no interest in him anymore. I slept with the BF on our first date and I don’t think we’d be together today if that hadn’t happened.

However, we are now 3 years in and

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/#comment-5916 Fri, 24 Apr 2009 05:13:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom-2/#comment-5916 I work with a guy that went out with this girl he met, things got a little heated up the first date and they ended up in bed, and he actually said that he wished she hadnt slept with him because he had really liked her and her sleeping with him so early changed his feelings about her.

]]> By: ScubaDate https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/#comment-5914 Fri, 24 Apr 2009 03:42:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom-2/#comment-5914 Erika,

What’s your email address?? I’m interested in exchanging links with you. My email is steve@scubadate.com and my blog is http://scubadate.com. Hit me back :)

Scuba

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/#comment-5913 Fri, 24 Apr 2009 02:48:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom-2/#comment-5913 studies by helen fisher show that when women have orgasms they get attached…but when they don’t they dont get attached…also she shows that women hope for ever after but this is not what they want. women lose desire after 4-7 years max generally speaking…however some stay in love/in lust for a longer period of time if the guy knows what he is doing. check out esther perel for that.

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/#comment-5912 Fri, 24 Apr 2009 02:34:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom-2/#comment-5912 there is no “set” age for when or when not to have sex, i dont believe sex under 18 is bad, as long as you dont go crazy with it. If your bf/gf and you are in the mood, and are getting along, and happen to have sex, it happened. So many people feel restricted if they’re under 18, but you shouldn’t. I think it’s dumb, and from a religious standpoint, if you’re worried about it, don’t, because

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/#comment-5911 Fri, 24 Apr 2009 02:31:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom-2/#comment-5911 Adonis,

I’m all for the romantic hero … just keep in mind that many many women are also hoping for “happily ever after.”

Frankly, my advice is not aimed solely at helping you get your rocks off. It’s intended to help make sure that both parties feel good about the interaction before, during, and after.

LMR serves a purpose. For many women, it helps to

]]> By: Adonis https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/#comment-5910 Fri, 24 Apr 2009 01:27:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom-2/#comment-5910 I'm not really sure who you are but I keep seeing your name associated with a lot of guys in the community…

…Gotta say this is either really lousy "chick" advice or misguided at best.

I am notorious for my ability to pull Same Night Lays and I end up getting into some form of relationship with the ones I truly enjoy.

Had I waited with a lot of

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/#comment-5909 Thu, 23 Apr 2009 22:46:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom-2/#comment-5909 I’ll say that when the question of attachment comes up, we start getting into some spiritual self righteous territory. Is it understood what composes “attachment”… including hormonal bonds that once activated through sexual connection, can have incredibly long lasting reverberations?

I think that is one of the reasons PUAs want to get to bed with a woman sooner rather than later..

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/#comment-5908 Thu, 23 Apr 2009 21:29:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom-2/#comment-5908 Well it’s obvious that for erika, commitment means “what have you done for me lately”. perhaps, it must involve entertainment, dinner, etc… spending cash on her because she believes in chivalry i.e. let the guy entertain me.

you see, no pussy is free…unless you know how to play the game. lol

what have you done for me lately? wasn’t that the name of a stupid song btw?

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom/#comment-5907 Thu, 23 Apr 2009 17:45:00 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/how-early-to-have-sex-challenging-the-seduction-communitys-conventional-wisdom-2/#comment-5907 a Swedish girl can have up to 15 sexual partners in her 20’s.

hm.. make that early 20s.

again, what does commitment means to you erika? deep attachement?
perhaps you could give us examples..

regards

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