Comments on: How a girl keeps a guy around – response to SMoKeLioN

By: Michael

Michael — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 01:06:00 +0000

Hey Erika … when you’re talking about intuition that comes from divine intelligence, wouldn’t you say that it’s not so much social intuition – honed through many interactions – that you mean … as much as it is a transrational intuition?

By: GoneSavage

GoneSavage — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 22:03:00 +0000

When you read advice like this, I believe it is useful to return to the original meanings of words.

Manipulate – to skillfully handle
Intuit – to have an immediate awareness

Manipulation – skillful or dexterous treatment
Intuition – a way of noticing directly

Manipulation – from the Latin manipulus, meaning “of the hands” or “to hold.”
Intuition – from the

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 19:39:00 +0000

Hi Erika,

I think your points about how to keep a guy are a little too ambitious. I would like to see another title... like... how to stay in connection over time authentically or something more congruent to the time line we're talking about here of your path.

Then, as a woman, it sounds dreamy what you are sharing! So dreamy and so easy... but it isn't an overnight recipe and

By: Vince

Vince — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 14:36:00 +0000

Hey Erika,
You seem like an enlightened woman and I'd like you to give me a little advice.
Ok, I went on a date with a beautiful woman a couple of weeks ago. We got on great. Six or so hours just flew by. We've been too busy to see eachother for a while but we manage to set a date. Something comes up and I have to cancel. I don't recieve her texts until much later. The first is a

By: SMoKeLioN

SMoKeLioN — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 12:20:00 +0000

Thanks for the response, I'll try and dissect it.

Saying that baiting him into opening is manipulation... you could then say that any form of communication is manipulation. Even if it is, is manipulation of one's environment necessarily bad/evil? Id say no.

Baiting into opening for example is like, wearing a low cut top and standing at the bar with your girlfriend while

By: Pstar

Pstar — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 06:47:00 +0000

I'm not sure what game you have as a girl. I guess end game for a girl would be 'keeping a man'. And long term relationships as we all know must be worked at.

But this post doesn't really address any issue's other than developing inner game. Having a strong inner game does not keep men around. When women have a strong inner game, they develop a strong persona. Ugh, I'm running a