Comments on: Do I need to have sex with her to know whether we’ll be sexually compatible? https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/ How to Attract Money and Miracles with Erika Awakening Thu, 14 Aug 2014 21:30:06 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 By: Dale https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/#comment-6707 Sat, 01 Aug 2009 16:31:48 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible-2/#comment-6707 This is mind boggling. Do you even know what you're saying? Basically you're saying the guy needs to get several dozen notches under his belt so he'll have enough correlational experience to tell whether you'll be a good lay, and this knowledge qualifies him to commit to you before having sex with you.

]]> By: tsf https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/#comment-6537 Tue, 30 Jun 2009 05:12:42 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible-2/#comment-6537 I really don't get the point out of this whole discussion. There's a man, there's a woman, both are attracted to each other. Then why the hell shouldn't they have sex with each other? Is there anything bad in it? Of course, no.
That's only natural ;-)

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/#comment-6465 Sun, 21 Jun 2009 13:56:25 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible-2/#comment-6465 "
Pressure is the enemy of pleasure. "

so true, this is why the first time I'm with a women I accept that it is not gonna be the best because the best sex comes with time, comfort and knowing one another. the first time you are just fumbling and discovring each others so the first I dont focus on her orgasm nor mine, I just want to enjoy it with no expectations or

]]> By: Allison M. Saad https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/#comment-6464 Sun, 21 Jun 2009 06:05:36 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible-2/#comment-6464 GS:

I think the scenario you describe is taking the theory to extremes. I have probably been on both sides of that scenario, but you sort of have to visit both sides to get to the right place… The scenario I am talking about is where both people are equally interested in pleasing each other and being pleased. Of course this doesn't happen all the time and it can't really. <

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/#comment-6462 Sun, 21 Jun 2009 02:12:48 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible-2/#comment-6462 "There's no way to be 100% certain, ever. And no matter how present you are, how much you feel her vibe, or how genuine you are emotionally, you can't predict the future, you can't change this."

With all due respect to Entropy, let me explain why I still think this is BS.

I hear Entropy saying that, in truth, you never know whether the sex will continue

]]> By: GoneSavage https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/#comment-6460 Sun, 21 Jun 2009 01:19:29 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible-2/#comment-6460 "There's no way to be 100% certain, ever. And no matter how present you are, how much you feel her vibe, or how genuine you are emotionally, you can't predict the future, you can't change this."

Thank you for your persistence here. I feel a sense of premonition when I read this. Thank you.

]]> By: GoneSavage https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/#comment-6456 Sat, 20 Jun 2009 22:02:56 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible-2/#comment-6456 "When you become more concerned with the woman's pleasure than your own, you will enjoy sex much more."

This is an important distinction of the 'like attracts like' principal. The above is true in LTR situations — you both are seeking long-term connection and devotion.

If you are on the path of having mutually satisfying casual sex — it is better to

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/#comment-6455 Sat, 20 Jun 2009 21:39:17 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible-2/#comment-6455 "When you become more concerned with the woman's pleasure than your own, you will enjoy sex much more."

I do not think that this is 100% true. of course he should take her input into concern and pay attention to her verbal and most importantly non-verbal reaction, but a people-pleaser in bed is not sexy at all.

just imagine the guy "did you get an orgasm?

]]> By: Jason Miller https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/#comment-6454 Sat, 20 Jun 2009 21:39:11 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible-2/#comment-6454 Allison,

I very much appreciate your feedback. With very little information I can see how you reached the conclusion you did. The example I gave was at the micro level. And I do agree that the two of us were very self-involved at the time and not doing a great job of pleasing each other.

I do believe most of my significant girlfriends were satisfied, but honestly, I

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible/#comment-6453 Sat, 20 Jun 2009 21:31:24 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/do-i-need-to-have-sex-with-her-to-know-whether-well-be-sexually-compatible-2/#comment-6453 Allison and Daria, thanks for chiming in.

Allison, yeah, that resonates with what I wanted to say to Jason M. It sounds like they are mirroring each other, each coming to bed with an "agenda."

Meanwhile, all my objections and belly-aching aside, please don't get me wrong here. The feminine (yes, I'm generalizing for a moment) longs to be filled up, with

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