Comments on: Did you buy into it? https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/ How to Attract Money and Miracles with Erika Awakening Sun, 18 Oct 2009 05:16:54 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7230 Sun, 18 Oct 2009 05:16:54 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7230 hi Decker,

Always nice to hear from you.

I've become uncomfortable though with too much "everyone's choices are ok" in this arena.

People come to this blog in part because they want to be shaken up from the conventional wisdom.

For those of us who see divine wisdom in A Course in Miracles, there is no getting around this passage:

]]> By: Decker Cunov https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7229 Sun, 18 Oct 2009 05:01:08 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7229 whew! nice thread for us to practice with erika!

hostility/self-righteousness in defense of monogamy OR polyamory vs humbly owning our own lifestyle choices and honoring others choice to do the same…

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7226 Thu, 15 Oct 2009 06:34:27 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7226 Good comment thread here: http://www.facebook.com/n/?profile.php&id=1557908867&v=feed&story_fbid=152152001908&mid=1400aeaG5cdbcd83Gc59de1G36

]]> By: Erika https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7225 Thu, 15 Oct 2009 04:50:41 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7225 Holy crap, why would I be defending myself at 4 am when I could be … I don't know … sleeping?! Jesus, you take yourself way too seriously ;-)

]]> By: Gayla https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7224 Thu, 15 Oct 2009 02:58:19 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7224 It's great to see so many different responses… getting down to the core of people's beliefs.

I realized what matters to me most is spiritual friendship with another person. Under that, comes romance, love, partnership, marriage. Sex, to be mentally relaxing, needs to stem from spiritual friendship. Spiritual friendship is not false, sudden, easy in, easy out.

]]> By: Dan_Brodribb https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7222 Wed, 14 Oct 2009 17:18:58 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7222 I have found inventing in my head the Perfect Relationship or trying to decide what a relationship should or shouldn't be isn't very helpful.

It just invites comparison to some imagined ideal.

I prefer to deal with the relationship I have. Then you only have to ask yourself the question: am I or am I not getting my needs met?

After that, everything seems

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7221 Wed, 14 Oct 2009 15:55:22 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7221 I think what's right for Erika and what's right for Daria are great for each of them!

I hope what they want works well for them. I just want you to keep in mind the overused saying, "don't put all your eggs in one basket." Don't give up yourselves for the dude(s) in your life.

]]> By: Daria https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7220 Wed, 14 Oct 2009 11:28:02 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7220 I want what I want and I believe what I want is good for me and it is for me.

I want a relationship with a man that adores me.

I don't know if it is 'special' like if the man was to die for example I would not want another partner.

I see beauty in marriage and starting a family with one other person, like best friends, team mates and at the same time

]]> By: SMoKeLioN https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7219 Wed, 14 Oct 2009 05:06:03 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7219 Is monogamy "tieing yourself down" to someone else? Who's to say it can't be tieing yourself *up* ? what if two people were runnin along a cliff edge, and when one teetered the other balanced both? Of course one could teeter so much that both stumbled down.

Besides that, I think if one is not sure about their relationship , then that's probably evidence of ones

]]> By: Anonymous https://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7218 Wed, 14 Oct 2009 01:06:18 +0000 http://erikaawakening.com/did-you-buy-into-it/#comment-7218 I'm gonna tie your panties in a knot. If you have to be superior to everyone by telling them to relax, then something inside you is fearful of finding out the truth. The truth that will squash your play and enjoyment of life forever!

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