Comments on: Attraction is not physical … it’s a “vibe” thing …

By: Chel

Chel — Tue, 26 Jun 2018 20:36:48 +0000

Totally with you Erika, attraction us a vibe. It can be strong or very subtle. Sometimes so strong it makes you breathe deep like you need air. I would love to hear more on your approach to this energy, I call it. I am finding out that when I tell a person that their presence brings intense energy or vibes then I am less intense and more calm.

By: geekchick

geekchick — Sat, 02 Oct 2010 09:03:30 +0000

Margaret,

What is there to think about it? Are you going to limit your dating options to someone who picks you up? Or do you want to be selective yourself and pick out someone that you find hot and that would be good for you? How is a guy going to know that you are interested in him if you don’t ever show it?

This isn’t the 50s. If you want someone, tell him. What’s the worst that can happen? That he says no. You never know, you might find yourself the love of your life that way!

By: Jake Vandenhoff

Jake Vandenhoff — Wed, 29 Sep 2010 07:46:08 +0000

Hello Erika,
Heck yeah it’s all about the VIBES! I totally agree that “knowing” what to do is never enough.
Knowledge can be a good thing, but it can’t hold a candle to instinct and emotions!
There’s a book I like “The Voice Of Knowledge” that elaborates on this…
Margaret: here’s MY take on women expressing interest first, I say GO FOR IT. If the dude can’t handle it, it’s his loss

By: Margaret

Margaret — Sun, 12 Sep 2010 01:07:36 +0000

Hey Erika,

Just have one quick question…not sure if this is the right place to ask but I wanted your take on Women expresing interest first in men.

Margaret

By: Erika Awakening

Erika Awakening — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 19:00:38 +0000

In reply to Brian.

No dear, it sounds like that is your projection … this is a coaching website, supporting a coaching business. It’s an invitation to support people who are looking for help to heal their life or step more fully into their power. I can help people heal themselves, when they are ready for that, and I usually wait for them to let me know that. Everything else I offer here is on a take it or leave it basis. I give my best wisdom, it’s up to you what you want to make of it … as is true for every interaction you have in life.

By: Brian

Brian — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 18:51:54 +0000

LOL. So what you are saying is that you are trying to “fix” others?

By: Erika Awakening

Erika Awakening — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 18:36:15 +0000

In reply to Brian.

Hmm, I don’t know, Brian. That surely is not my conscious intention.

My conscious intention is to discuss the points you raised about your ex-girlfriend and, because I’m aware that others are also reading our conversation, to provide additional information about my system for sorting out ego and Higher Self for anyone who is interested …

What do you think?

By: Brian

Brian — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 18:25:12 +0000

Why do i get the impression that you’re trying to “fix” me. LOL

By: Erika Awakening

Erika Awakening — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 16:50:39 +0000

In reply to Brian.

Hi Brian,

Yes, that is sad. What I hear you talking about, though, is the difference between connection and projection. The ego projects, intuition connects. They are two totally different things. The simplest way to tell the difference is that intuition is non-judgmental. Competition is of the ego. Interpretation of other people’s motives tends to be of the ego also.

In my 15-week intensive Miracle coaching program (http://www.spiritualseduction.com/erikas-15-week-miracle-coaching-program), I teach people an entire system for being able to filter between the voice of the ego and the voice of intuition. Only the intuition is reliable. All the remaining ego stuff is just noise to be released through Holistic Belief Reprogramming.

Make sense?

By: Brian

Brian — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 16:31:45 +0000

Yeah, but don’t you find that sometimes you aren’t really tuned into another person’s true emotional wavelength, because you have your preconceived ideas and beliefs about a certain person or people, that mask your ESP?
For example, an ex-girlfriend of mine used to say her girlfriends were her best friends and that she knew what they were feeling or thinking psychically. Yet, i noticed a lot of the times, when one of her girlfriends would just say something with the intention of being nice and helpful, my ex would interpret it as her friend trying to think she’s above her and then she would put her down in subtle ways, to make herself look better. She clearly had issues with women in her life. Unfortunately, I see this a lot with women who try to unconsciously compete with each other. Instead of encouraging and caring for each other, they subtly or not so subtly put each other down. It’s sad erika.