“Even Though I’m An Asshole” EFT Tapping Video with Erika Awakening

Tapping for Your “Inner Asshole” with Erika Awakening

Are you ready to embrace and heal your “inner asshole”? The day I recorded this EFT tapping video, I realized I was acting like an asshole. Then I also realized I had a deep inner conflict about this because being “nice” was not getting the problem resolved. So this is a classic “resolve an inner conflict” tapping sequence for healing our Shadow Self. It just happens to be about being an asshole lol ;-P

For those of you who are new to my system of Holistic Belief Reprogramming, don’t worry about the fact that the specifics may vary from yours. Just tap along and tune in to whatever what I’m saying reminds you of from your own life. You’ll be “borrowing benefits” by allowing your subconscious mind to draw the parallels.

Oh, the yawns are good too. They are physiological releases that mean your subconscious mind is shifting … if you yawn, take it as a good sign that the video is working :)


Erika Awakening, High Priestess of Miracles at TAPsmarter

About the Author:

Erika Awakening is a Harvard Law School graduate and former practicing attorney. She left the rat race to become a location-independent entrepreneur, holistic life coach, blogger, speaker, healer, and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT tapping) expert. Erika Awakening is one of the world's foremost experts on eradicating limiting beliefs and lifestyle design on your own terms. Learn more about Erika Awakening

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  1. irsh johnathan says:

    Being passive and nice gets the job done. Even though I am an asshole I admit that I like the attention.

  2. And now here is a comment from Kelly that she put on Facebook:

    I get it, and I agree it’s a hard balance when you can see how something would without a doubt benefit someone and they are full of excuses why not. Could that not be a sign to just walk away due to them not being ready? Or not being the right client or partner or whatever. Being content with just planting a seed of a possibility, whether they take it on or not. It goes from being passionate and helpful, to annoying and off-putting.

    I was waiting for the healing event to happen but you didn’t get there in this video. Interested to hear the outcome.

    Hi Kelly,

    Thanks for your comment. Will you please help me understand what you mean by “the healing event” so that I can respond to your comment? I think your comment is reflecting some important ways in which Holistic Belief Reprogramming is different from regular EFT tapping, and I’d prefer to have clarity about what you mean before I respond. Thanks :)

    • Kelly Burch says:

      I use Energy EFT. Healing event is just reaching a point where there is a realisation or a breakthrough relating to the topic and the problem that comes from moving energy relating to it, understanding where it comes from or why you do things how you do them. More here: http://energyeft.com/EFT-A-Z/healing_event.htm

      If you were a client of mine I’d be treating the two parts separately as ‘aspects’. Especially the part that believes that she needs to be an asshole otherwise things won’t get done and people won’t do what you want. Giving that part enough attention is bound to unravel something. But since you’re not a client of mine, I will wait to hear how you go!

      • Hey Kelly,

        Thanks for responding on the blog. Yea, that’s what I thought you meant so it’s a good opportunity to note some of the differences between Holistic Belief Reprogramming and regular EFT tapping. I understand it sounds like you are using a variant of EFT tapping anyway so understand my response is more general.

        In HBR, we stop trying to control the direction of the healing in most instances. My videos are quite varied, so this video is by no means representative of all of them. In some of my products available at http://tapsmarter.com/store, we have extremely emotional videos that have huge emotional crescendos and resolutions. And indeed, perhaps they exist, but I do not know of any other practitioner out there who is willing to cry and scream on video so as to create as intensely healing an experience for the viewer as possible. I do not believe in “professional distance” in my videos. I believe the more real it is, the more powerful it is.

        So clearly this is not one of those videos. In this video, what we are doing – among other things too extensive to describe here – is allowing the inner conflict to be voiced. We are using non-violent communication-inspired dialogue to express the “very good reasons” why one might be an asshole. And then we are not trying to resolve it here. The subconscious mind is far more powerful than the conscious mind. What we have done in this video is get the subconscious mind – including divine assistance – working on the problem for us. So that we can manifest a resolution far more satisfying than anything the conscious mind might imagine.

        This is the sort of tapping that leads to previously unimagined possibilities, such as the way I got my new car (http://spiritualseduction.com/brand-new-car) and the way my mentoring client got her extra $135,000 (https://erikaawakening.com/epic-money-miracle). Hope that helps make more sense of it, there really is too much to explain in a short note. My mentoring client’s feedback to me after I coached her for more than a year already is that the learning curve was so steep she wished it had been a two-year program. We are doing a lot that is a great departure from traditional EFT, and there is a method behind the madness.

        Thanks for commenting :)


  3. I didn’t want to lose some of the comments we had over on Facebook, so I’m reprinting them here. This is what one viewer said:

    luv this. luv how we can easily, even joyously accept the “dark” sides of our precious selves and be a part of the human race and be imperfect and flawed and confused and in conflict and deeply and profoundly love and accept our precious selves and let it go, it’s safe, and we are love. this reviewing the “blank document” AKA unconscious FEAR and sending it to the recycle bin, is the bomb! i also luv how you acknowledge our Higher Power of the Divine Universal Mind and Support Staff too.

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