Actually the truth is that I was a little bit of an ugly duckling turned swan myself, so I know what is possible in this area.

Lots of women are actually hiding their true glory and beauty, just waiting for it to be revealed and appreciated.

Just like turning chodes into playas :-)

this is great…let the fatties/ugs take the comparatively hotter guys of the market. that means less competition for me :-)

~ quick

Lo, I wouldn’t want to get my head up in the clouds now would I? ;-) Not to be cocky, but I bet I could turn a chubby girl into a hard-core seductress at this point in my learning. Tyler teaches you guys that looks don’t matter for men, and I have come to conclude that they matter almost as little for women. Hotness is an energy.

Quick, thanks for another good laugh. You remind me of someone. And yes, I think you really have something there — there’ve been lots of guys who have not yet learned to enjoy the *process* of seduction and whose agenda is so obvious that it takes all the fun out of it for the girl.

That’s one of the real keys — enjoy the process.

Not to be all gushy about Manwhore, but … when Manwhore writes his LRs, there is so much obvious joy in the process for him. He notices and savors each little touch and mannerism. It’s obvious he loves being around the essence of femininity. That’s Presence.

i come here to read about seduction!

well i used to practice aikido. and uhm…..you cant afford to fixate on end of the technique or your gonna mess things up cause you’re rushing the moves before.

I guess the same goes for getting a girl. hahahah maybe thats why you dont get laid? are the guys you’re with rushing it too much? :)

~quick…lol.

The glorious ‘insights’ that Morihei Ueshiba experienced came through a thorough understanding of his body through the medium of bujutsu tanren. He’s not a navel-gazing hippie, he was a hardcore martial artist.

Most aikidokas (I’m willing to bet your friend is part of this percentile) do the hippy thing, ‘participate’ in aikido, and think they’ve become ‘one with the universe’, when in fact, they really don’t have a clue, because they haven’t trained their body to the extent that some Chinese masters or Morihei Ueshiba have.

I also still don’t see how seduction connects with martial arts? All seduction is is getting creating connection for the time being, so one is given the leverage to seduce the other person. The heart of loving kindness? Fat women don’t get macked on…guess they ain’t get no love.

Anyway, interesting blog. Just wanted to stay some thoughts just so you wouldn’t get too far up in the clouds.

The flowing of motion, energy, time and space around and through a person as you encounter them (either in aikido or otherwise) is pickup.

It’s also communication, love, living well and interconnection among all things.