Embracing Imperfection – Can We Give Ourselves A Break?
All right … I wasn’t going to post for a while, but as usual I can’t help myself.
There’s a big debate going on right now between Player Girl and myself.
She thinks she “f*cked everything up” by being vulnerable.
She thinks she’s going to “lose the game” if she shows any weakness.
I told her that’s just being human. (Not to mention that it also shows sincerity, which is vastly underrated in the seduction community. Are we embracing imperfection here or what?)
I, personally, mess things up all the time. I send too many text messages. I’m reactive. I have feelings. I get riled up. The thing that drives me absolutely bonkers is being ignored. So obviously that’s one of my sticking points. Yep, I still have sticking points.
And that makes me the sexiest mother f*cker around.
(If anyone knows a phrase that has the same “oomph” as sexy MF but sounds more “feminine,” the suggestion box is open. Lol, thanks Doug :-p)
So I say to Player Girl to OWN IT. Let’s embrace our imperfection. We are human. We are a bunch of foolish idiots. OWN IT.
My latest thing is to put a :-p on everything I do. I’m going to react, then change my mind, one second I’m elated, the next I’m apathetic, the next I’m rebellious, the next I’m sad.
Well, at least I’m ALIVE. Which distinguishes me from 99 percent of humanity right now.
Trying to be perfect is too stressful. It’s too strained. Erika Awakening is embracing imperfection.
Who cares about being perfect? I’d much rather be alive.
What do you say to that, Player Girl? :-p
What do you think, dear reader, about embracing imperfection? Feel free to share in the comments.
About the Author:
Erika Awakening is a Harvard Law School graduate and former practicing attorney. She left the rat race to become a location-independent entrepreneur, holistic life coach, blogger, speaker, healer, and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT tapping) expert. Erika Awakening is one of the world's foremost experts on eradicating limiting beliefs and lifestyle design on your own terms. Learn more about Erika Awakening
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