Do We Need to Have Sex to Know If We Will Be Sexually Compatible?

sexually compatible

Do we need to have sex to know whether we will be sexually compatible?

This is one of my pet-peeve issues, one of the biggest baloney lines that guys say to women to get them in to bed, so I feel compelled to address it. Someone suggested on an earlier thread about last minute resistance (LMR) that, if a guy doesn’t have sex with a girl prior to committing to her, he may run the risk that she won’t be good in bed.

Gone Savage left this comment, and thank God, because I rarely hear guys in the community owning up to this:

>>>”what if SHE sucks in bed after I commit to her?”

I used to think this way. After you get a couple hundred notches on your belt, you’ll know if woman is expressive/enthusuastic/good before you’ve penetrated. It’s just not at issue — you know.

So true, GS.

And let me just say, as a woman with a pretty low “number,” it *really* does not require 200 notches to know this. I have NEVER once not been able to tell whether the sex would be good BEFORE having sex.

I can tell by the kissing, by the foreplay, and by the level of connection. I could tell whether or not we would be sexually compatible.

Please, guys, stop using this excuse. It’s complete and utter baloney.

Likewise, I have been able to rule out guys based on these seven seduction tips before having sex with them because I KNEW the sex would be bad. I knew we would not be sexually compatible because other things were OFF.

Love,

erika awakening